I've found new joy in not having to wear a dress to feel feminine, but really getting into what I think a lot of women during Covid have done - wear leggings pretty much most days. I had a few...
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I've found new joy in not having to wear a dress to feel feminine, but really getting into what I think a lot of women during Covid have done - wear leggings pretty much most days. I had a few...
Addiction = something that interferes or disrupts what would be parts of your life that you find valuable.
So at the beginning I felt the compulsion to dress, along with a lack of self...
Not very much activity here on this thread despite the laws and executive orders being written that are absolutely discriminatory to our community. Beuler? Beuler?
Nope. Could not stop nor do I want to. I’ve come to see this part of me as something to cherish and love, and that makes me more me. Just wish I could share it more often with more people.
Hi All - thanks so much for the responses and insights - and please know that I never meant to offend anyone that sports the beard full time. There's a spectrum of us and I realize that we all own...
Hi All -
Haven't posted in forever, but I just had to reach out as I haven't been able to attend a support group, get therapy or whatever—life has been incredibly hectic and stressful for...
Well - Darla for two reasons. One: I used to want to get the Victoria's Secret catalogue when I was growing up (as much to envy and want to be the women as to train my male gaze on them). So I...
Thanks all! I appreciate the posts and yes - prioritizing the job search is foremost, the two of us are coming to grips that everything else is kind of moot. We made up. We usually do. Shes so great,...
Hi All -
I haven't been posting for a long time, and for good reason - my wife was trying very hard to come to terms with my dressing. She grudgingly accepted underdressing, even went so far as...
Bummer - I lived so close but never got up the courage to go there. Now I guess I'll never get the chance....
Oh well. Maybe think of starting one up?
Thanks everyone, and yes - I'm in therapy. It's just does a little more than no good some days when you can talk about your feelings, but then walk back out into the world and realize that al your...
This kind if straddles the line between CD and Trans forums, but that's okay- I really have no idea where I belong anymore!
So to the point: what do you girls do when you just can't take it...
I'm still kinda finding my way through this whole mess, and the limiting factors are about the life I've constructed for myself. Kids, family, wife how not really accepting, a community that's a...
Yes - most of my sessions are about the comfort level and gaining acceptance from my wife, who's pretty much adamantly opposed, but is showing a few chinks in her armor. When I do go dressed I feel a...
I went to therapy today - but no clothes. The last three times logistics kept me from changing and getting dolled up. Strangely enough my therapist said that seeing me dressed opens me up a little...
Rebellion? Sure - I'll say that's one word to describe it, as well as non conforming. Growing up a repressed catholic I knew it was "wrong" but had a sense of pride and otherness that I thought no...
What's that sequence in Billy Elliot where he's trying out for the Royal Ballet and he muffs the whole thing, but shows such passion that he's called back by one of the Headmistresses? He's...
Thank you so much for that detailed and absolutely visceral description of Lees! It was the first place I publicly acknowledged that I was indeed a crossdresser - and that it was accepted by some...
Hey Sibby -
Yeah - I guess I too have undisguised IED, and the therapist I see isn't all about labels, just general consensus that my ability to not express myself is a major contributor to the...
This is kind of a weird thread - almost misogynist actually. I greatly think women in general are pretty wonderful creatures with habits and mannerisms that are beautiful and gentle, but sometimes...
How about-
"Oh my god! That's the prettiest blouse! I have one in a plum color, but obviously in a size up. I got my nails done the next day at the salon down on --fill in mutually know salon...
I think I grasp where you are and as a self conciliatory person myself tend to read WAY too much into things. Especially comments about gender. But I think I'm a little on the beginning stages of...
Hey Sarah - I'm sure a lot of us can sympathize with you here and even parallel what's going on with you in our own experiences. I know I can. You find yourself in a situation of your own making that...
Hey Kelly -
Tor story could pretty much parallel mine except I slowly and methodically let out that I was a crossdresser, and had many subsequent and painful revelations on my wife's part over the...
Thanks everyone. I never know where or how to emphasize things, sometimes I'll post things in the CD section when it feels like it should go in the TS section, and sometimes vice versa. This might be...