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I think that wanting something for a long time and not being able to have it, sort of leads you to indulging in that thing later on in life. Young girls are often made to wear pretty but...

Realistically, it's about half that, across the board. Except for jeans. I only have 4-5 pair. And more like 15 dresses than 25. Mostly because tops and skirts are so damn cheap at the Salvation...

As for the expense, it was virtually all thrift-store finds, many of which had the tags still on them. I did pay, on average, a bit more for the shoes and boots. Maybe $20 a pair or so, because you...

It's not that I plan to get rid of ALL my stuff, just half of it. And keeping half is still keeping quite a bit. Believe me.

But like I said, I have zero desire to crossdress, and this has been...

I'm not really sure when I first started feeling embarrassment over the fact that I was attracted to certain girl things. I know I was somewhere between 6 and 8 years old. To be honest, it could...

On and off, for a year or so, I got kind of obsessed with cross-dressing. I'm not sure why, really. My current theory is that my testosterone level was really low, due to me essentially not being...

Me neither. I've had plenty of therapy already for issues far more serious than crossdressing, and it wasn't much help at all. I'm wondering if crossdressing isn't some coping mechanism for me when...

It was my ex-girlfriend. At that point, I felt I had little to lose. She was surprisingly ok with it, although she has kind of a big mouth, and I'd be surprised if that information stopped with...

A friend of mine was a real-estate agent who had access to unoccupied houses. I never tried to gain access to them, but I often thought that this would have been an ideal scenario.

You're just a dude that was born with some female instincts. Don't worry too much about it.

A guy, in a relationship with a woman who doesn't mind if he sometimes acts like a girl. I want a woman who doesn't mind testing the limits of gender roles. But ultimately, I'm quite straight. I...

I took the advice given here, and ended up spending more time than I wanted to (and a bit over $100) with a middle-aged Chinese woman who clearly wanted nothing to do with me. She sold me a...

I came up with Valerie, because Valerie was the name of my friend's sister, who was (and probably still is) very fat. Nevertheless, she had a good attitude about her size, despite the disparaging...

The best advice I can give to crossdressers: try to be funny instead of creepy. More Eddie Izzard, and less Buffalo Bill. Crossdressing weirds out a lot of women. Defusing their apprehension with...

This is maddening. Throughout my life I've kind of wished I didn't have this annoying desire to make myself look pretty. I've even used drugs as a means of "getting it out of my system", so that I...

Reine - that's really close to what I try and tell people. Really, all these in-between sexual identities come from the haphazard way that hormones differentiate our brains into male and female,...

I read a journal article recently, that discussed measuring testosterone levels in a colony of Rhesus monkeys. They found that lower-status males had lower testosterone levels than the dominant...

Haha, because that sometime works. At least our deviancy is more or less harmless. Imagine being only sexually attracted to children and having a really high sex drive. If God controls the...

I know exactly how you feel, because I used to feel the same way. I'd get so crazy obsessed with dressing up, then feel like an idiot when I saw myself in the mirror. But then I lost some weight,...

I've come to the conclusion that someone crossdressing, at least part-time, should be seen as more of an embarrassing hobby, or maybe more like watching porn, than like some huge horrible perversion....

Haha, that's great! I never really had any attraction to purses, other than that they seemed to be the female counterpart to cargo pants, and guy-me loves having so many pockets, like cargo pants...

Yeah, but dressing up was ultimately unsatisfying and made me feel like an idiot afterwards, until I got the total look down. But that was after a lot of work and trial-and-error on my part. It...

Here's the thing about that comment: It's the sort of dishonesty that's designed to make people feel better. The ironic thing about that picture, is that it was selected from one of 89 pictures of...

I'd put it differently: A large part of the female experience is spent trying to make herself look good by society's standards, like it or not. Sure there are girls out there that wear whatever...

Oh, yeah, I still own and wear all that stuff as part of whatever my outfit is, and usually under the actual non-underwear clothes. It's just that if I feel like playing dress-up for a few hours, I...