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At this point I've "come out" to a fairly equal number of men and women. In every case, people have been supportive and understanding. Perhaps that's a self-selection bias, as i have been careful to...

@JC - actually, crossdressing is now protected under US law, at least in the workplace. As long as you dress in a manner consistent with your company?s dress code (which has to be gender neutral -...

It's just all so weird to me how things can be "gendered" - I mean there was even an episode of The Office where Michael "accidentally crossdresses" and people know because his buttons were on the...

Sitting here today, I thought to myself "how silly is all of this?"

I don't mean by that my desire to dress, underdress, much less anyone's desire to pass, not pass, or express themselves however...

I think the phrase "distinction without a difference" comes to mind re bi vs pan.

Then again, for some people it's a critical distinction and so if that's how they want to be referred to, it's no...

@Jodie_Lynn - to be clear I wasn't saying *you* were disagreeing with my comments. It was a royal "you" - as in if anyone disagrees with my comments, that's fine. Doesn't really bother me whether...

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I have to say I generally am in agreement with how you phrase "gender fluid." I'm generally in that category (have always loved wearing lingerie and historically "femme" colors and...

Short background, I am a mostly cisgender male and fully heterosexual. I like many am in a DADT marriage, effectively. I underdress when I can, and am working towards incorporating blouses designed...

Fair enough - if I could rename the thread I would. But the question still stands, especially if anyone has any tips or has tried to do so.

Instead of the typical purge (throwing things out, tossing them in a goodwill bin, etc.) has anyone ever tried selling items they didn't want on Ebay? I have tons of dresses, blouses, never worn...

Does anyone else feel sad/unhappy/disappointed unless they are underdressed? I know for me I'm pretty disappointed if I'm not underdressed. And it isn't just that I'm wearing women's underwear,...

If you could, would you ever work in women's clothing store? And not just happen to work at a Nordstrom or a Macy's, but actually work at a place like a Lane Bryant, Catherines, Dress Barn,...

Does anyone else find it frustrating not to have someone they can talk to about their desires or wants related to dressing? I'm dying to have long, open, honest chats about clothing, especially...

I still don't get it. I can understand being practical for work situations and other events, but that mentality seems to take over nearly 24/7. And besides, a woman can wear a pretty bra and still...

I am one of those people who struggles with his love of lingerie. I want to wear it all the time, and have it be most feminine, softest items possible. Nothing makes me happier than when I slip on...

To answer your questions, I think the why would be more along the lines of is it a reflection or curiousity, comfort, desire, or some other issue lingering in the brain. But yes, ultimately I would...

Has anyone ever thought about or actually gone to therapy related to your cd'ing? I was toying with the idea. I don't really want to stop, but I am thinking about going to better understanding of...

Boxers, briefs, panties, etc. etc. always find a way to show on me. I should not be ashamed, but I cannot help it. LOL! Maybe I'll get over it some day.

I am not so worried about the scanner, I am just worried if I have on panties or a bra with an underwire and I get patted down or have to untuck my shirt. It'll be embarassing. I don't mind being...

Do the recent world events make you a little more hesitant to undress while traveling through an airport? I love wearing panties while traveling, but I'm a little afraid of having to suffer a pat...

I agree! I think big girls are sexy, and my regret is that a lot of the sexy lingerie is hard to find in bigger sizes. then again I love big granny panties so who cares! LOL!!!

I've read some of the posts on coming out, and I would love to see a collection of experiences on people who came out with positive results. It is comforting and empowering to hear stories about...

Mary and Stitch are both right! When I say "accepting" I mean a person who is open to things and loves a person in their whole. I would love a kind woman who is moral, respectful, and open,...

I guess I have a lot to learn (no surprise there lol!) The key is for me to be honest about who I am and what I like. Maybe then I will find someone accepting. That's all I want at the end of the...

To be clear my post was more clearly enumerated by Joni Marie. I suspect a relationship is all about compromise, and that is all I meant. I would not want to buy someone off to let me wear...