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Hi all, it's been a while since I posted as I outed myself to my SA a few months ago. At the time I was in a bad place and had agreed to go to counselling as I was very depressed and suffering bad...

Quite a poignant question for me as I have recently come out to my SO. She is still processing it. It made us do a lot of talking which was really good and improved our relationship in many ways but...

Julie
You are very lucky your SO was so supportive. I came out a couple of weeks ago and now wish I hadn't as I have no idea what's going to happen.

Hi Teresa,
I don't know what it's like in your part of the country but I moved to the West Country 15 years ago. I was an "incomer", presenting as a male and even today I have neighbours who will...

Hi Victoria, I have to go with Teresa "My counsellor was astounded how I lived with the suppression for so long , to me it was like a cork in a bottle, at some point I knew something needed to happen...

6 years British Paras in the 70's. CD as a kid, tried to purge while I service always felt bad. Been doing it since.

Today was a good day I think? During a phone conversation with a long time friend I told him I was in counselling and he congratulated me saying it was about time. People had been telling me to seek...

The urge to get it over with and tell her is getting stronger. I go to see a counsellor most weeks and have stopped telling her what we discuss so I think she knows something is up. I'm back to...

I had a girl friend once, just after my divorce, who was accepting. She was extremely wild, daring and outrageous. She even bought me underwear. But then she flipped and called me names banging on...

Welcome Nicole, I'm a newbie myself having "lurked" for a while. I visited my counsellor yesterday and she said almost exactly the same thing about my cross dressing needs not being met. I had...

I hope my partner is so good with it but after 50 years as a "macho" man (x military) I'm not sure what she'll do!

I tried some brighter colours with my male wardrobe and got lots of snide comments which surprised me. I currently have a deep red sparkly top and a silvery top which I love but do tend to buy plain...

I had a GF just after my divorce who really opened my eyes to all sorts of sexual activities. She used to buy me hold ups and lingerie. When we broke up she trashed my house and ran up and down the...