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I have travelled extensively, and continue to do so, for the past 15 years. I have always avoided waiting in line for passport control behind people whom I guessed would be closely scrutinized.
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How do you feel when people stare at you???

I was out to lunch recently with my niece and there was a cd sitting at the table next to us. I simply could not help looking...yet if s/he...

I am NOT offended...just scared of the possibilities that can result form it! jean

Definitely NOT which is why it's hell for him and me! jean

I would NOT jeopardize a relationship that seems to work...talk to her first...otherwise she could end up doing a 360 degree on you...:) jean

Once more...I wish to thank you all. I DID NOT understand the extremism of shopping and how it evolves around shame and poor self acceptance ( I spoke with him, he got defensive, hung up on me, but...

I think you are wrong...but even if I were...what would be the problem with it???

He has lied about much bigger things...he could tell me about his purchases afterwards...but he does not! It's an escape...as he said himself???

because he lies about it...and he has lied to me about more important things...and it debilitates me...

It's the lying I can't live with!!! The money does NOT matter! jean

on a shopping spree: wigs; breast forms; shoes; stockings; girdles; makeup; and who knows what else!!!!!!!!!!

I NEVER tell him what to buy or NOT to buy...........I only ask that he tell me about...

Carroll...every response helps...a lot! I wish you could tell me more. It could help. I am happy to send you my private email address if that encourages you to write. jean

Toya...neither my husband nor I are Americans (English is my third language) and we DO NOT live in America...rather we are pretty close to where you are!

But, you may be right in that it is an...

WOW Marlena..........that is absolutely brilliant!!! Will check out your blog and the book...............YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT ALL THAT YOU SAY! Will show the hubby....this threads is really...

You are right...looks as if that is the average session. But since he never focuses on the issue (he becomes defensive and brings in non-related things), I am exhausted before we begin the main...

Melanie...it's NOT the crossdressing that is our major problem...I don't think...I love people who are different (albeit finding out about it accidently 7 years ago caused trust issues...and the...

Cindy...you are right on the mark!!! As you describe yourself, you are describing my husband. This is precisely what I was hoping for...knowing if it also happens to others! Thanks, jean

Thank YOU to all of you ONCE MORE!!! Yes, I am working hard trying to make things work.....

Marla...the only thing my husband can talk about without time limits is his crossdressing...this,...

My husband and I have a communication problem which could be the source of many of our problems. It's NOT that he refuses to communicate, but usually he CANNOT talk about things for more than 1/2...

Tekla...you challange me...and I like that! I will need to re-read your post when I have not had a couple of glasses of chardonney...:) jean

Good one Joy...and how does your male and female sides feel about this? :) jean

Sorry Emma...can't agree you wholeheartedly on this one...problem with my husband is his immaturity...and he has no major problem with his feminine side, or so he says.

Separately, from what I...

you are indeed funny loki...I thought you would find it 'quiet disconcerning to be lookin at a girl and one part of you is thinking: nice shoes...while the other is saying...I wonder how dominant...

yes...I mean ALL of us humans on this planet. :) j.

I believe we ALL have a male and female side...! Do you??? Is it just a matter of degree? It would be great to know what you all think about this...thanks! jean