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My dental hygienist was the first (and only) to notice my shaved legs, but she assumed it was because I was a biker (I do triathlons). She said she dated a guy who was a biker so that's why she knew....

I don't understand your question.

Are you planning to go dressed? If so, it's a great opportunity to get out because people are accepting.

If you go as your male self, nobody will assume you're...

I have a Google phone and it's loaded with Google Photos. One of the options is Google Lens. If you take the picture, use Google Lens, it might find the manufacturer and/or the vendor who sells the...

My answer would be "yes, I'm on the transgender spectrum and I would be happy to answer any questions you have."

Without doing the whole ordeal, here is the Wikipedia definition, which I agree...

I was checking in about a year ago and the clerk, after getting my guy credit card and driver's license, asked for <male name>. I pointed to me.

Another time I checked into a hotel in Chicago,...

Looks great.

Yes, I suggest a new thread in the photos forum. Tell your story so people can judge for themselves that it's easier to get out than we think (fear).

As to photos, I'm not a...

Excellent! Aren’t you glad you did?...

...except for the aching feet part?

You know what you want to do, you have the outfit picked out, it's Pride, so go to the parade, and come back here and tell us all about it, with pictures, of course.

Great dress, nice pictures.

It's Pride month. I'd suggest another outing, but one in the middle of the day instead of the crack of dawn. People really don't care, you don't need to hide, and you...

I think you lie to your wife and keep dressing on the down low.

I see zero reason to come clean to your wife and explain you've been doing it in secret for the past 10 years. What does that get...

You have left out the outcome where the spouse doesn't know, and having met two CDs in real life for which that is the case, and having been on this board for regularly for over five years, a fairly...

Hope your hangover is better.

My two cents.

1. I thought this is a crossdressing forum. I can't understand why the cheating threads haven't been moved elsewhere. Crossdressing is NOT cheating...

It sounds like you, your wife, and SIL have it under control. So just go for it, have fun, and report back here, because we will all be interested how it went.

One more revisit on the bathroom...

One with good food:)?

I've never been at a restaurant with a man before but plenty of times with a girl friend, our TG group, or solo. Never been an issue.

The only thing the choice of...

Dan Savage refers to it as Staying Married and Staying Sane (in his case, it's about sex outside a marriage when the spouse is unwilling or unable to have sex). In our cases, it's about going out...

I always joke my Dee wardrobe is Nordstrom, thrift stores, and hand-me-downs from my friend Michelle (and recently from another friend of hers, Marie), while my guy wardrobe is race shirts (runs and...

It's hard to overcome the fear--and once you go out it's easy to overcome the fear.

I finally decided someone might know it's a guy in a dress, but they don't know it's ME in the dress, and I just...

Toxic masculinity? Patriarchy?

I don't think any of that is true.

It's all self-selection.

Sandi goes to clubs that cater to individual freedom and self-expression, and the people who go to...

I think the real touch is the gold nail polish on your toes. Are you sure it only takes you two hours to get ready?

Cute shoes, fabulous skirt, and you make it all come together.

Take a risk,...

Well, we all know now why you are always dancing.

There is NFW you can sit in that skirt. :)

I saw K today when I rode my bike (the pedal kind, not the motor kind) to their house to drop off the gift card and Michelle's contact info. We talked for a few minutes, I showed her a couple...

Thanks all.

As background, I will add within this group, my high school debate buddies, the first wife of my friend who turned 65 died while in child birth in 1994 (the daughter survived, and got...

This past weekend I told the wife of a high school friend about myself. It was the first time I told anyone other than those I've been intimate with, or people who had never met the guy me.

Here...

Actions speak louder that words.

Good that you fessed up.

Even better is that she's known for four months and she didn't run for the hills when she found out. That should tell you, at least for...

Yes, and I've written about them here and at Kandi's blog. Renee I knew from a previous lifetime, while others like Michelle and Karla, both of whom I've been out with the last week, I met because of...