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Yes. My ex found a bra I forgot to hide and thot I'd brought a "girlfriend" home!:doh:

Patience, thank u for correcting me!:hugs:

Unless I'm mistaken, u live with your wife, Helen. So, how would anyone know those clothes were yours and not hers?:daydreaming:

Or, r u worried someone would question your masculinity for helping...

I'm sorry, Patience, but this thread is NOT about trans who go out dressed every day or CD's dressing to blend so no one notices them. It's about those CD's who go to extraordinary lengths to look...

Most people that think they pass really don't. But, I KNOW I pass from the back, Helen! When I'm in clubs watching the dance floor, guys will walk by me to get a look at my face. When they do? They...

Back in the days when I suffered shame and guilt from dressing I never had dressed dreams.

Now that I'm well passed that stage I sometimes find myself dressed occasionally. But, like my real life...

I realize trans that r out mostly present to the degree of fem self they feel they r inside. When possible. And, most r not trying to fool anyone!:eek:

However, many of us CD's use as many tricks...

I found the perfect way to suppress it!:thumbsup:

I made a deal with myself to dress every time I felt the urge. Then, for three months I dressed in a spare room at work, my car, in motels on...

Why r u asking us?:straightface:

Ask her!:battingeyelashes:

I dress all the way or not at all. No one in a million years would guess I dress when I'm in drab!:tongueout

Why is it that nearly every thread I start turns into a "panty thread"?:doh:

I wear all my thong type undies backwards, Pumped. But, of course I also always tuck when wearing them, too!:o

If u think regular spike heels r a problem, Helen, try the new "micro spikes"!

They get stuck nearly everywhere!:doh:

And, if u walk on a lawn bring a shovel!:heehee:

I find it weird that your wife who knows you're not out, would suddenly think a trans was at your door looking for u, Maria. :eek:

Have u spoken with her recently about going out dressed and/or...

U can have your hormone levels tested if u really want to know, Angela. I wondered about my testosterone levels when I got excited about dressing in my 50's.:straightface:

Turns out I was low, but...

Wow!

I wanted u to have at least one post, OAG. But, couldn't think of anything else to say!:thumbsup:

Sounds like your brain is working over time!:doh:

I bet in time you'll find out it's nothing!:thumbsup:

I disagree, Heather. When I see a woman with a look I find sexy, pretty, or unique? I take a photo of her if I can subtlety. Usually from behind.:daydreaming:

I rarely ever take a photo. However,...

Look, I lived 50+ years as a homely man!:sad:
And, now I'm an ancient one, too!:doh:

If I enjoy presenting as a sexy, young woman? I'll gladly bear the title "narcissist" if it makes u...

So, she MAY have seen something sticking out of your jeans if she even took the time to look and notice?

But, was it a skirt, an undergarment, or another shirt under your T? Don't u think if she...

The answer for me was/is: Dress when I feel like it, don't dress when I don't feel like it! :thumbsup:

That works for me, Sabine, because I live alone. Not everyone can do that,...

My good trans buddy is a golfer. She's often out on the course in her lady's golf gear. Even has special shoes!:battingeyelashes:

She has a trans and few other guys who care less how she dresses...

There's a name for couples who continually play silly games to try and sabotage each other! Codependent?:eek:

Apparently that is a very popular reason for underdressing, Kris. And, it was for me for about a week.:)
Until I realized I wasn't get away with anything except in my imagination!


I know many...

"Yes". Then, if he wants to get into it u can elaborate. Most Vanillas don't!:straightface: