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    Sticky: No, it doesn't matter, at least not in the end. ...

    No, it doesn't matter, at least not in the end.

    Appearance, whether it's under your control or not, is what gets you questioned. That is as true for trans people as it is for e.g....
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    Sticky: I read through this, and I think it's a step in...

    I read through this, and I think it's a step in the right direction for sure. There are a few areas where I think the language is inappropriately "soft" from a legal standpoint - there is still too...
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    Sticky: I'm not sure that I agree with your conclusions...

    I'm not sure that I agree with your conclusions there, but regardless...

    For crossdressers and early transitioners, I am arguing for precisely the status quo. Unless somebody in that position is...
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    Sticky: No, I used the women's restroom when presenting...

    No, I used the women's restroom when presenting female once I started HRT. I changed my legal sex/gender markers 7.5 months later, when I went full time. Past that point, I believe that I should have...
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    Sticky: Emphasis added... Is that actually what we're...

    Emphasis added... Is that actually what we're lobbying for? Because I don't think that's what we're saying. That's certainly the wording of the laws that we keep demanding (which is the problem IMO),...
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    Sticky: Was I not clear? I don't want anybody to have to...

    Was I not clear? I don't want anybody to have to swipe/show a license to open the door. Cars don't make you swipe a license before turning them on, but I bet you fish out that license when you get...
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    Sticky: I don't need to know whether somebody is CD or TS...

    I don't need to know whether somebody is CD or TS until it becomes an issue, and - again - I don't think anybody should be checking anybody's undercarriage at the bathroom door, nor do I think they...
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    Sticky: Except trans women are not men. That's unlike...

    Except trans women are not men. That's unlike CDs, who by definition are. CDs need the men's room to be safe for them, not to use the women's room. We need to start differentiating between the two...
  9. Not to mention (for example) how having insurance...

    Not to mention (for example) how having insurance plans reliably covering birth control for women is apparently a big problem, but covering viagra is clearly necessary... Men have routinely ensured...
  10. One, if you think that was actual misandry, you...

    One, if you think that was actual misandry, you are out of your damn mind. Equitability is not misandry, and equality can clearly feel like oppression when you're the one who was always on top. Suck...
  11. Actually, this entire thread has been about...

    Actually, this entire thread has been about misogyny, since well before I jumped into it. This thread, whether you choose to see it or not, is about a bunch of men in dresses hitching their wagons...
  12. Exactly right Suzanne, in both your replies since...

    Exactly right Suzanne, in both your replies since mine.
  13. I'm sorry Leslie, but what in the actual F are...

    I'm sorry Leslie, but what in the actual F are you talking about? You are not trapped in a relationship. Your SOs hold no real power over you. You are free to leave, and deal with the consequences,...
  14. Sometimes, on and off the forum, I will say...

    Sometimes, on and off the forum, I will say something to the effect of, "the cross dressing community is home to some of the most misogynistic, selfish, anti-women men on the planet, and most of them...
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    There are different opinions on the subject....

    There are different opinions on the subject. Here's my question, which I have to phrase carefully for rules reasons. While dressed in public, do you do anything or expect/use certain kinds of access...
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    Meghan, my response to that is... Show me the...

    Meghan, my response to that is... Show me the crossdressers who are trying to educate the public on that difference, rather than insisting that they should have the same types of access and legal...
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    I love you Suzanne, and I think I understand the...

    I love you Suzanne, and I think I understand the point you're trying to make, but I don't see how living openly as who you really are 24/7 can possibly be considered "in the closet". All I would be...
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    Hmm? Muslims have a need for the public to be...

    Hmm? Muslims have a need for the public to be better informed, just like women, union members, teachers, and a host of other groups. We don't lump all of them together because the information more...
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    Leslie, I would argue that actual crossdressers...

    Leslie, I would argue that actual crossdressers don't really even struggle with gender identity. You struggle with gender expression, which is rather fundamentally different.

    I have mixed feelings...
  20. Thread: Competition?

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    Kate saying the rest of what I wanted to say, but...

    Kate saying the rest of what I wanted to say, but didn't. Combine our responses and you've pretty much got my complete thoughts on the matter.
  21. Thread: Competition?

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    Kelly, I don't think there's anything...

    Kelly, I don't think there's anything particularly obtuse about it, and I DEFINITELY don't think it has anything to do with "jealousy of (Carla's) looks"...

    Carla, I don't know your wife, but I...
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    "Direction". You are talking about extrapolation....

    "Direction". You are talking about extrapolation. You hypothesize that the results those studies generated would apply, perhaps proportionally, to CDs. Great. Fund a study to test that hypothesis,...
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    sweetdreams, I apologize if you think that I'm...

    sweetdreams, I apologize if you think that I'm trying to "bitch slap" (ugh) a group of crossdressers. The only point I've been making is that the studies you linked to (along with other previously...
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    A variety of things, from sexual fetish, to...

    A variety of things, from sexual fetish, to obsession, to stress related behavior, to play, to I'm sure a whole bunch of other things that might cause a man to find relief or enjoyment in expressing...
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    You're on HRT, and transitioning in a sense. To...

    You're on HRT, and transitioning in a sense. To whatever extent there is a spectrum, and whether it's a continuous one or not, I would say you're somewhere on it.

    I have mixed feelings on whether...
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