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This is going to take some time, Laura. I know, I've been there. When I came out to my wife as a closet crossdresser, we were at roughly the same place in our relationship as you and your wife (we...

When I finally told my wife after eight years of marriage, three kids, and an additional two years of friendship and dating (before anyone says anything about the fact that I should have told her...

Just throwing my two cents worth in (not really necessary because you appear to have handled it the best way possible for your relationship).

In a similar situation, I would be certain to thank...

Before I met my wife, I worked in an office for a major telecom company. Whenever I think about going to work dressed now, I always kick myself for not having had the gumption to do it back then when...

Haha! I had forgotten this thread was out there.

As always, I appreciate everyone's input. As I mentioned earlier, this is really an exercise in creativity more than a reality for a number of...

Steffi, I agree 100%. The typical bet story is totally lame and usually pretty transparent. This is why I'm going through this mental exercise. If there's a way to force the bet in a way that doesn't...

It probably is an exercise in futility, Kim. But it's fun to think about and maybe just a mental exercise in creativity.

Honestly? I don't necessarily expect to come up with a solution. For those...

Thank you all for your input. You have made some valid points regarding the risks involved with mixing work and play. Some of those concerns (like being expected to go full time at work) are part of...

Given Halloween is on a Saturday this year, I am thinking we may throw a costume party on Friday for adults and then still take the kids trick or treating on Saturday (wife vetoed me taking kids...

I thought of that, Rhian, but the charity we're involved with is for helping abused and neglected children. There isn't really a good segue from helping abused and neglected children to crossdressing...

*sigh* Were it that easy. There are any number of reasons I am not ready and/or willing to full on out myself at work, the least of which being my wife is only recently become more accepting of my...

Here is a crossdresser favorite: How do I get someone to dare/bet/challenge me to crossdress at work for a day (or longer) without being obvious that I want to?

Sounds familiar, doesn't it? I see...

Isha and Krisi, it is exactly the lack of control over said pictures that explains why I have been so hesitant to post in the past. However, like, Krisi, I am hoping that my makeup skills have...

Thank you for the encouraging words, ladies. I know the odds are slim of anyone I know IRL coming across this site and discovering my hobby. And I know that when done up, at first glance almost no...

So you may notice, I have updated my avatar and profile picture with an actual picture of ME! I just posted the original image (slightly cropped and reduced in size per forum rules) in the Pictures...

I am not wholly convinced that I'm dealing with full blown DID, Sandra, but potentially some less severe dissociative disorder. I'm also not relying on the abbreviated version of the Szondi Test that...

You sound exactly like the disaster therapist we last saw, Cheryl. That's exactly the attitude she took and it was absolutely no help, despite how true some of it may be.

As to whether or not I...

I totally get what you are saying about all parties need to be willing to work together, Gen.

Initially, my wife and I discussed seeing a counselor together, but one of the main reasons we're...

Welcome to my head, Kate. It is a bit confusing.

I try very hard to forget about the break up with my high school girlfriend and the months that followed. Suffice it to say, I did not handle it...

Thank you all for your replies. I was leaning towards the woman therapist because I thought it may be easier to discuss my crossdressing with her. My hesitation with the woman therapist was her...

My wife is not handling my crossdressing well. In an effort to save our marriage, I have agreed to counseling. Initially, we planned to do marriage counseling to work through it together, but, for a...

I would guess, Stevie, that a majority of us chose that same one. I don't typically put a lot of faith into Facebook tests, but the synchronicity here was a little difficult to ignore and added a new...

A friend of my wife posted this thing to her Facebook wall the other day and said the results were spot on. My wife took the test too and said the results for her were pretty close to accurate too....

I have kept from sharing too much of my story because I have been trying to maintain a degree of anonymity and am completely aware of how revealing anything on the internet can easily lead back to...

A friend of mine posted this on their fb wall:

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Do you resemble a celebrity en femme?