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Most of us ladies who have lived a few decades more than you will tell you that there's not much chance that this girly thing is simply going to go away for you. Rather, you're going to "get to...

How about jeans or other pants with the zipper on the side?

Girls,

My experience in going braless with attached forms is mediocre at best. The forms have to be pretty small for this to work well.

The forms tend to stick at the center but not all the...

Girls,

We see a few posts a year like Leonal's, asking if hypnosis is helpful in finding your feminine self, and the replies are most often like these. "Never tried it, but I'm sure it's...

Just shopped at Lane Bryant today. They had a huge assortment of bras in my size (44DD). Shopping experience (en drab) was relaxed, no-drama. I browsed the racks, picked out the two bras I wanted,...

In this particular situation, the guy's comments could be considered professional compliments and suggestions -- if you're willing to be generous! His first bears some special consideration, because...

I grew up in the 50's and 60's, and while I loved my parents dearly, I have to say that my cross-dressing totally baffled them. I wasn't flamboyant or anything -- the only way they ever found out...

I got to the individual questioning phase in jury selection for a lawsuit about a property boundary a year or so ago. I was actually looking forward to serving, civic duty, change of pace, and so...

The Hollisters and remover were just about gone, and are not all that expensive (compared to missing a day of my vacation, that is), but I doubt I can find them anywhere in San Juan!

Hi, Girls,

I'm on my way to Puerto Rico for a working vacation. I was planning to check my suitcase, since it contained a number of things that wouldn't pass security. When I arrived at the...

I suppose hypnosis could be used to help you suppress your feminine side, if you really felt that's what you want to do. I know this is true because it also works the other way -- it can help you...

Tasha,

Previous posts have said "you could try this ..." -- for some reason, they bring to mind Yoda's famous quote from Star Wars: "do, or do not. There is no try".

In other words, IMHO you...

Girls,

I'm treating myself soon to a vacation on Maui for a week or so. It's just me, and I'll be free to dress and live as I like.

I'm tempted to go "out and about" for the first time in my...

Exactly so. Hypnosis is about helping you do something that you really want, like "as you pick up the bra and put it on, you can feel the delicious weight of your breasts filling it out".

With...

Ladies,

Hypnosis is guided fantasy. If you're good at it (i.e. if the subject is good at it) you can achieve some pretty amazing and delightful stuff. Yes, it's still fantasy. No, it's not...

As to labels, Lewis Carroll dealt with the significance of labels decades ago:



:)

We tend to get distracted by the labels, and repeatedly come to the conclusion that they don't matter. ...

Girls,

Take a moment and look at my avatar, over there on the left. That's it, just relax and look at my watch... :)

OK, yes, I'm a believer and a fan of hypnosis. I know, not just believe...

I recently had a short, but very satisfying series of sessions with a therapist. I consulted her because I had a specific question I needed to work on. My relationship with my current gf wasn't...

Jackie,

Your visit to a therapist could be a fantastic experience, as mine has been. I was closeted in a marriage for almost 27 years, that just ended in divorce. (No, I don't think my TG-ness...

If you go see "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button", bring a box of kleenex!

Hugs,
Susie

I would tell my 18-year-old self, "let down your hair, take off your glasses, and go put on a dress, because you're beautiful. Don't sacrifice your happiness at the altar of your {parents, friends,...

Girls,

I got my first Little Black Dress for Christmas. Also, some undies and a soft, slinky burgundy nightgown. Love them. Unfortunately, I had to buy the doggone things myself, since I'm...

Jennifer,

Don't knock the pharmaceutical solution until you've investigated it, or better, tried it. If you don't have a sound medical reason why you shouldn't use it (e.g. taking nitrates for a...

Woo, congratulations, Simone! It could be much worse -- you could be the other way around, or uniformly horrid.

You'll get it. Make-up is an odd art, that's partially very subtle and in other...

Balletchick,

I'm also not the least bit interested in being "cured", no more than I would be about being "cured" of being able to paint the Mona Lisa, sing opera, or dance the Sugar Plum Fairy in...