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Your situation is incredibly complicated. Your answer could possibly be in the comments below, but professional help is always recommended for situations such as yours.

At large, I think so. There are a lot of societal shifts, some good and some bad. I think we are more accepting and tolerant as a whole. There will always be those individuals who won't be accepting...

I only dress fully, and that's when the urge hit. I can go months at a time without wanting to dress. I've never been a fan of partial or under dressing. I dress when I can make the time for it, I'll...

My want to dress comes and goes. I never go out of my way to dress. I dress when the opportunity presents itself. I really only dress during the winter months, because I get to show off then. :)

First I must say, Micki OMG your heel collection is amazing! I'm so jealous! :daydreaming: And I think there is another some dressers keep their crossdressing to themselves. It is a just sexual...

I have learned if I don't want "attention", dress like it. Mini skirts, shorts dresses, and high heels are a combo that causes many eyes to be on you that you may not want. I've learned that...

Honestly at times, it has been a compulsion and an addiction. Most of the time it is in the compulsion territory. Dressing has negatively impacted my life before I got it under "control". I can go...

I'm in almost the same boat. Crossdressing is mostly just a pure sensual and sexual pleasure and outlet for me. I've always fantasized about with another gurl too. I've had a few opportunities, but...

I definitely agree with the two ladies who posted before me. A lot of people and crossdressers actually like the thrill or prospect of getting caught, but I don't think it would ever be worth it....

Wearing sunglasses is a great idea. I have been to quite a few places in the US, and I have literally never seen sunglasses draw anyone's attention. I agree with Patience, they have been a valuable...

Happy Birthday, enjoy your day to the fullest dear!

ellbee, Kelly DeWinter, and biancabellelover I love everything you ladies have brought to the discussion. A lot of people don't understand that everyone faces hardships and struggles. That is a fact...

Yes, I agree with Tamsin. I don't think you should read that much into it. Just enjoy that beautiful dream for what it was, and be the best dresser you can be in the real world honey.

I completely agree with Ressie's statement! You are not alone here, but people are more than likely scared to admit that part of their CDing. I'm not, and you shouldn't be either.

First, I must say you are freaking gorgeous. Secondly, you and your wife had one heck of an adventure that night. I'm glad you were able to make sure that turned into a positive experience for the...

Honestly my dear, did whatever works for you. If dressing is what makes you most comfortable, dress up. If male more makes you more comfortable, suit up. Its about what you want.

My dear, you certainly got me. You have a way with words, and great story telling techniques. I can't wait for the next one!

You are alone dear. I am 30, and I've had strong sexual feelings about dressing since I was in my teens. Maybe it will eventually change over time, but who knows. Crossdressing is a spectrum and...

You have one hell of a life girl! I love the story, and I'm glad you got to enjoy yourself. I can't until spring, so I can start up my public crossdressing adventures again.

Nope, you are fine. Crossdressing is a spectrum, not a straight line. Don't force yourself to do something you don't feel like doing. This can certainly include dressing up. Everyone is different,...

I like the way you said that, "I'll dress whenever the urge hits me. And, NOT when it doesn't." I feel the same way, dressing should never feel like an obligation.

For a lot of crossdressers, it feels like that "miracle" may never ever happen. I know women like that are out there, but will I ever meet and form some kind of relationship with.

Sounds like you had a fun, relaxing, and cathartic experience. Congrats hun!

It is hard to find good shoes for myself in male or en femme. I'm a size 13 in men's. Haha

That is a beautiful story and an even more beautiful picture Rachel. :daydreaming: