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I’ll build on this scale:
0 - Show stopper, get out of my house
1 - DADT, lets just ignore this and never talk about it again.
2 - DADT, but I’d like to be aware of when you’re going to...

My advice: take her out on a date, let her go out on an overnight spa trip or girls night out with her friends. Dressing is probably the #1 thing on your mind, but a mother of 3 kids is often...

I thought it was a good read. Allison & Nancy - I understand your frustration, but I thought it shed a lot of light on my particular situation regardless of terminology.

Communicate! It’s always easier said than done. From my perspective, you love dressing in a certain style, and your girlfriend seems to like a different style. When she selects outfits for you...

I guess I’m having a hard time trying to find a balance. I understand keeping my SO happy and respecting limits, but fundamentally why should her limits trump mine? I think there’s bound to be some...

Glenda,

I’m about to start on counseling, but my situation is a bit different. I came out to my wife of 19 years, who was aware of my penchant for heels and hose, but didn’t know quite the...

I recently came out to my wife and also scheduled couples counseling for us. My first counseling session is later this week.

I have a lot of emotions floating around my head now so I guess this...

I agree. Dressing used to be intensely sexual, but has morphed into more of an expression of personality. I’m 43 now.

After a quick search, it appears that the last time anyone discussed Emerald Fantasy in Seattle was several years ago. Does anyone have any more recent experiences with them? I'm thinking about...

Does anyone know an affordable, professional, CD friendly dressing and makeover service in the Philly area?

Kat,

I feel your pain, and it's been a couple years! Wife is supportive, knows that I love pantyhose, heels, skirts. She doesn't like it as much as me, and we never have any time so it's been...

Pictures are worth 1000 words, so does anyone know where I can see some actual pictures of these techniques? Graphic content is OK. I'm not talking about porn, just some actual pictures of this.