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I totally agree.
Acceptance is essential (I have done that !)
Set limits, say only CD in certain conditions and under control (That's reasonable but not practical for me. I am in a Zero Tolerance...

Confucius : you have it absolutely spot on. You're brilliant. You advice fits exactly what's in my mind. Thanks a million. Georgia : you are right too. It's like a compulsion for me. Thanks too for...

You are not wrong. Sydney is wonderful. You see, I was born in St Vincent's. I grew up in Burwood & Chatswood. I just love Syndey as I'm a true blue Aussie girl too. Just that compared with London,...

In the past years, I have visited a number of cities en femme.

NEW YORK CITY - RECOMMENDED
Very tolerant. Can shop and visit lady's bathroom without hassles.
Some people on public transport...

I would if there are people who have stopped for decades, then after breaking the "abstinence" and doing it once, ended up having to do it regularly and could not stop the urge ??

How about seeing a psychologist and talking about my urges to CD whilst dressed en femme?

How about dancing at a T-friendly night club alone ?

How about going for a job interview (that would be...

Thanks for all the feedback.

I suppose, life is not meant to be easy.

If I could just be able to CD whenever I want to, I guess today I would be doing it 128 hours a week. I would be travelling...

Thanks.

I am actually quite conscious and accepting about my CD. I know I just need to avoid it for a few years for personal reason. I know in the end CD is what I enjoy in life (although not...

I have stopped crossdressing for nearly 2 years now.
Still, I have thoughts to crossdress DAILY.
I think about it as soon as I wake up. Such thoughts just keep recurring throughout the day. Almost...

I have done all these but I won't mind doing these again.
1. Manicure (while en femme)
2. Walk around as a tourist, visiting museums & sights
3. shopping for fashion & shoes en femme
4. attending...

I am a hetero male with typical male interests.

I started CD since 14 years old.
I think my introverted, empathic and gentle personality is closer to female.
I feel more relaxed talking about...

Sorry to confuse. But I am utterly confused myself.

I am thinking of going en femme every single day but I am trying very hard to suppress my urge.
I have done all of the things I listed (and...

I just want to know how long will one typically last in a situation similar to mine.

I usually CD every 9-12 months, when I go for long trips out of town.
To me, I need to spend at least 4 - 5...

As a lifelong CD, I wonder what is the longest period of time a CD girl can stay away from dressing up en femme ?

I'm now effectively off all CD activities since 2 years ago. 20 months to be...

When I'm out of town, I invariably dress. Rather than staying in my hotel room, I venture out.

Yet, I need suggestions as to what I could do.

Here are a few things I've tried

Shopping for...

Well, I absolutely agree with the comments posted so far and with thanks too.

My question however is really : how frequent are hate crimes or rude acts done to t-girls in the UK?
In Chinese...

wonder how people in UK in general treat T-girls.
I've lived in many places.
In Australia, most people are very tolerant and respectful of t-girls and most people just don't care. Yet, there are a...

To keep my nails long technically is easy. There are three issues to deal with though.
1. If I have girly nails, I will need to have girly hand gestures all the time
2. The nails do get in the way...

The replies are appreciated.....well.......I am expecting so much to happen perhaps.....

For a CD girl who is not officially known to her family and co-workers, going around town en femme poses certain downsides / risks. I have pondered over them and would like to list them for the...

For those of you who are not 24/7 en femme, do you keep your nails long whilst in male mode? Having long nails could made one feel extremely feminine. Yet, it also intereferes greatly with one's male...

With over 80 views by other T girls but no replies at all, I am beginning to wonder what's wrong with my questions. Am I asking something that is inapproprirate / taboo with answers that cannot be...

I'm planning to visit London and spend a week en femme. I used to be very a passable Asian girl in my early 20's but that was 15 years ago. I want the following advice from other ladies here:
1) How...