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    Debs, I think your thoughts and findings are...

    Debs, I think your thoughts and findings are important and something that we who are involved in this tend to forget. I am sure there are some wives (or husbands if a woman swings the other...
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    Diane - No I did not have to rewrite it. With...

    Diane - No I did not have to rewrite it. With long posts I always save the text to the clipboard and then paste it into a new empty "Reply to Thread" form. That eliminates the problem with being...
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    (That was shocking, Di. I went to post my...

    (That was shocking, Di. I went to post my response to Diane and meanwhile the thread got moved. No harm done; just a Twilight Zone Moment.)

    Diane, I think you are fine. To me the rule in this...
  4. Thread: Awesome wife

    by GretchenM
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    Congratulations. Your wife is an angel; treat her...

    Congratulations. Your wife is an angel; treat her well and continue the communication. But, as others have said, take it slow and allow time for your wife to adjust to this new you. It is so...
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    Very lucky indeed. They are out there and you...

    Very lucky indeed. They are out there and you found one. Interesting that she thought "something" was going on.

    Maybe time to buy a lottery ticket or two. The gods are looking kindly on you.
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    Liz, you might want to keep a few things for that...

    Liz, you might want to keep a few things for that rare time when you might need to express the old way. It may never happen but if it does it could be chaotic without a small reserve. Put that...
  7. Congratulations, Sandi. Thinking back, you have...

    Congratulations, Sandi. Thinking back, you have come a long ways in a short time. Just goes to show how well this forum works in helping people get into a stable pattern with a mature look at how all...
  8. Great thread, Judy. I agree with you and others...

    Great thread, Judy. I agree with you and others that using a tool like FaceApp or even doing a lot of touch up of a photo using editing tools in Photoshop can be deceptive. It modifies the face in a...
  9. I agree with the responses others have given to...

    I agree with the responses others have given to this point. I don't think there is a clear cut state of being that constitutes transitioned. It is in the eye of the beholder and the beholder is the...
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    Jessica, you and your wife have accomplished a...

    Jessica, you and your wife have accomplished a major feat in getting through all the transitioning in one piece. That is not the norm. Good communication and compromising is always an immense help....
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    Diana, I agree with Kim. One of the problems with...

    Diana, I agree with Kim. One of the problems with the approach you are considering is that it tends to be taken as imposing your will on your wife. You may not view it that way but it is more than...
  12. Thread: Year one

    by GretchenM
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    Happy birthday. You look very good and quite...

    Happy birthday. You look very good and quite happy. I agree with Char that you have come a long way in the such a short time. Maybe you have found your inner self and what you found is very complete....
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    Your wife's behavior may be telling in that she...

    Your wife's behavior may be telling in that she already knows something is amiss. I agree with Julie. Time to have the talk.
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    It is complicated and obviously there are many...

    It is complicated and obviously there are many different reasons why a person wishes or needs to present in a different gender from that expected based on their sex. Medically, those of us who...
  15. Thread: Too Tall!

    by GretchenM
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    Aunt Kelly is right. Passing is a myth. A trans...

    Aunt Kelly is right. Passing is a myth. A trans acquaintance says, "I just do it because that is who I am." She is 7' 4", but does not wear heels. Sometimes she must duck going through doorways. I'm...
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    Most of us have very deep seated shame and guilt...

    Most of us have very deep seated shame and guilt and our brain is accustomed to thinking that way. It takes awhile for that to change as it requires some re-wiring in various parts of the brain and...
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    Sounds wonderful. I often wear a hiking kilt on...

    Sounds wonderful. I often wear a hiking kilt on the trail along with a T-shirt that is obviously designed for women. I get a good deal of comments and they are mostly nice, but then there are those...
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    So exciting, isn't it? Congrats. You are hooked...

    So exciting, isn't it? Congrats. You are hooked now. :battingeyelashes: Like Marion, my first bra was purchased at Target. Was that an adventure!! I felt like everybody was staring at me and...
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    I personally have a problem with the definition...

    I personally have a problem with the definition of "crossdresser." The definition is good and logical so long as the basic concept of gender is binary. In fact, the concept of gender has drifted far...
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    Wonderful development for you. I think it shows...

    Wonderful development for you. I think it shows that for some it takes a long time for a wife to accept the need for dressing or the existence of another identity in her husband. You can read the...
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    Another 76'er here. I can remember back many...

    Another 76'er here. I can remember back many years ago when I looked back on my life as an epic disaster. But since then that view has changed to the "mostly good" perception you speak of. Thanks for...
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    A lot has been said here by a lot of experienced...

    A lot has been said here by a lot of experienced people and knowledgeable people. But I feel at this point there are a number of conflicts and you x-dressing may not be the main one in the big...
  23. Thread: Lifetime

    by GretchenM
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    This pattern is very common with parents and...

    This pattern is very common with parents and mature family members doing this, primarily to boys it seems. Perhaps they think if they do it then it is fine and won't have any impact, but if the child...
  24. Thread: First Kiss

    by GretchenM
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    Lori, I love your examination of this subject and...

    Lori, I love your examination of this subject and I agree with it. It is a lot more complicated than it seems on the surface.
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    I do a lot of those little tells now. Back before...

    I do a lot of those little tells now. Back before I accepted the strong female-like and intentionally mimicked men I was much more male-like in those ways. I catch my wife looking at me and...
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