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:lol: sometimes it can be easy to forget what mode we're in :)

Anne; Yes, T2 might be a factor. I don't have T2, and none of my living family members do. One relative did, but that was 20+ years ago. I do know that having T2 can increase the amount of time it...

Anne, "safe" is a relative term. Whatever option you choose is going to have negative aspects to it.


Shaving? Nicks and cuts. Note; there's a reason women's razors are different. You'll get...

The question of who is a friend and who is not I am not sure should be based on whether such a person accepts us as crossdressers. Throughout our lives, we have many people we interact with. Very...

Go all the way Amy :)

Also; you might consider an epilator. Almost as effective as waxing, and lasts as long. I got one a few months back and have loved it (though it hurts a little bit).

I too follow the "need to know" principle.

My wife knows, and has known since two months into dating. An old girlfriend, with whom I remain exceptionally close (yes, my wife knows and approves...

Maria, you have a phenomenal wife! I know you don't take it for granted now, but you really do :)

The idea of "choose the dressing over her" is a very unfair question. I know your wife didn't...

melissalynn, I too have to wear the compression socks. I dislike them, but the consequence of not wearing them is bad. Potentially very bad. But, all is not lost!

As you've not doubt seen (at...

Sabrihal, as Sandi noted, you have a bit of an advantage in that you do know you are a crossdresser now, and it's not something you will discover after you marry someone.

I agree with others that...

I don't have any known (as in diagnosed) mental health issues, and don't suspect that I have any issues that are not diagnosed. That said, I think crossdressing leads me to better health than going...

Nancy44; WELCOME TO THE FORUM! :)

To the point of being pulled over; I get that it's really stressful. I remember seeing a COPS episode from many, many years ago and the cops were ridiculing...

There's only one person close to me who knows, and yes I talked it over with my wife beforehand. Since the lady in question lives several states away, it wasn't really an issue. My wife and I are...

Diane, that's easy. If you take off at the right time, and you head west instead of east, you can avoid ever seeing 5 o'clock while in the air :D

Not crazy at all :)

It can be fascinating realizing that programming from decades earlier has an influence now, and we don't even think of it. You made a stack of folded clothes just like your...

Heather, I hope things go well in your recovery.

Your tale (read in full!) is quite informative. You told me things I did not know! Important things! I'm getting older now, and having this...

Welcome Satin-luva! You are amongst like-minded friends here!!!

I had no female siblings, so my earliest dabblings were in my mom's clothes. My mom discovered my nascent stash when I was 14. My mom absolutely read me the riot act. I had to listen to her for what...

This is a great question Helen!

My scariest moment was a very powerful day for me. I was in my early twenties, and dating a wonderful young lady "Sarah" (not real name, of course). She and I were...

Hidey, the more you wait the fewer days there are. What have you to lose in throwing the door wide open?

I understand your concern about not wanting to upset your wife. That's a very valid...

You sure that's a man cave? :D

Undressed, even if she knows, is not very visual...if at all. So, having a skirt on with no other outer garments is a half and half look that usually doesn't look right.

Samantha, please always understand that what I (and I'm sure everyone here) say is meant with caring and support. With great respect...

being on HRT making you feel better isn't a slam dunk at...

If you've been out dressed many times, then there really isn't a reason to have some male clothes along with you, is there? :) Plus, it will prevent any chicken-out moments. If you do take them and...

Are you mental? We've no idea of knowing :)

Ok so you have a lot of femme things and accoutrements. But is it a problem? Does it make you mental? I'm not a counselor, but a few questions come to...

Jillcder and Danni both....

I know there are times (even all the time) that we'd like the ones we hold most close to be fully aware of all aspects of us, and love us for all of our entire selves....