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Yes I do, and perhaps that is why I don't bother so much now.

As a not so accepting SO, I feel guilty that I can get dolled up, and it does spoil it for me, and that pisses me off as I am the...

Used to wear it all the time but now I find I haven't got time in the mornings trying to get the family off to school and us to work.

I like to wear make-up and it does make me feel better, but...

:wall: doesn't help the cause does it.

I'd take the million and the fame :tongueout

with that you can always get another partner

(tounge in cheek)

Lulie

I can understand your hurting, I've been there, still go there quite a lot, I shout and scream. A lot of wives yo-yo, and I feel for you but I must admit what you did was pretty below the belt...

What your wife did was wrong - a nasty act.

But have you asked her why she is being so vendictive - perhaps shes hurting inside and trying to punish you.

Lulie

I know how you feel but from the GG side, it seems to be a circle, accepting, not accepting, accepting, not accepting, accepting, not accepting. I've taken myself out of the loop and put...

Bernadina how to get GGs to accept your cause, I don't think so.:mad:

I dress for comfort - I am not out to prove anything.

Whilst sking this year my hubby pointed out a skier (man) wearing the same ski jacket (dark grey) as me!!!!!!!!! Now that was ironic............. as the jacket size is medium I can only presume...

to be honest not really,

:clap: :iagree:

bravo Brenda

Lulie :cute:

One day I think acceptance, thats no problem what is all the fuss about and then another I feel I cannot handle this.

I think if a wife loves her other half enough she will make some effort to...

There is no easy answer but can't you put your own feelings aside until after the baby is born and concentrate on one of the most exciting things in the world bringing a new life into the world.
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I have only brought one item of clothing for myself through ebay but used my hubby's log in etc as I have for my other non clothing items. So it would be quite feasable for a man to be buying for...

If there were easy answers this forum wouldn't be here :confused:

Lulie

There are many partners on here who are happy with cding.

Me well I'm not sure about it all but willing to keep trying as long as it is a joint effort.

"If she loved me enough she would...

That opening conversation is very very difficult (me and my SO have been there) how do either of you start it, and if you do where will it end what does the future hold, you are opening a can of ...

I must admit I wear trousers/jeans all the time, it is very rare to see me in a skirt. One of the reasons is I have a bad leg and foot and I have felt over the years they hide this, and to be...

No I didn't understand - still trying to get my head round it all - but one of the first things I did was get on google and started looking, still looking, still reading. It doesn't hurt to read...

I wear make up for me - when I bother to take the time it makes me feel better.

I wouldn't put make up on in public except in the ladies.:angel: :angel:

I'm not the most accepting SO, but I am trying, I yo-yo but I find this site reassuring, it shows me that there are other SOs out there, I have been made to feel welcome even as I say I am not...

Thank you for your replies

Prehaps my first sentence was a little misleading

I meant accepting wife and the kids not knowing, at this time I do not want to tell the children maybe someday...

This is aimed at cders with accepting wife and kids.

I am trying to put my head around things and this is a thought I have had.

My hubby and I run our own business, he work into some evenings...

This sounds like me 18 odd years ago, when I first found out I thought it would be OK but after a while I didn't feel comfortable.

Events are a little hazy after all these years but my SO...

My first just husband was selfish because he would rather go fishing or fly his model aeroplane then spend QT time with me.

My second husband is a cross dresser who would probably want to dress...