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Love Vancouver! I lived there for 15 years and was very sad to leave. We lived downtown for a while before building our house. I used to work in the Bentall Center.

... but I agree. Fashion styles...

Well, when you think of it, how many wives say to their non-CDer husbands, "You're NOT wearing [that] are you?" (Substitute "that" with that old tie, that frumpy jacket, those ill-fitting pants, that...

This is one of my favorite topics - trying to figure out what motivates a wife to feel or not feel one way or the other about an aspect of CDing. :)

It seems the consensus in this thread is that...

Some women buy the wrong bra for their bodies either because they think that cup size is the only thing that matters, or they've never given themselves time to figure out the best, most comfortable...

Lol if he is interested to that degree, then he will make some effort to see the CDer outside the event and if so then he should be told, as I said. If it's just flirting at the event with no...

It doesn’t matter what is the "other-thing" that is lied about or kept secret, or done behind a spouse’s back without saying anything, whether or not it involves some form of sexual release. If such...

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This. :)

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If you're just going out for the evening to have fun and don't plan on meeting anyone again after the event, then I don't see any obligation to...

These ways are all equally worse.

I would have felt betrayed that he had lied to me and this would have been devastating, even more so than finding out about the CDing. There is nothing worse in a...

I don’t mind CDers using women’s bathrooms, as long as they’re in there just to relieve themselves and wash their hands. I understand not wanting to be dressed in men’s bathrooms. I’ve been in...

I agree with the other ladies. Non-CDers usually keep their compliments in check when it comes to women they don't know, for fear they'll come off as hitting on them. And even when they compliment...

Just to be clear, there are indeed relationships based on a negotiated power exchange: an agreement where one willingly submits to the other who then willingly agrees to dominate. This is a fairly...

Nancy, thank you for your response.





You use the term "lifestyle choice" without defining it. There are two types of lifestyle choices. One involves making conscious decisions when it...

You describe WLM (wife-led marriage) or FLM (female-led marriage) as a lifestyle. Although I initially got the gist of what you meant based on your acronyms, I did just now google it and there are a...

I agree with you!

I guess I just don't understand why feelings of submissiveness are associated with the wearing of women's things.

Also, you do agree with me that femininity and submission...

It’s amazing how different people can interpret the same reality in completely different ways.

The facts as described by the OP:
The wife does not want to see full dress (she does not object to...

I agree. But I think people began using the umbrella term "transgender" as a substitute for everything because no one could agree on definitions for transsexual, crossdresser, non-binary, gender...

You’ll not reach a consensus on determining whether all, none, or some CDers are trans, for the simple reason that everyone defines being "trans" differently. The various personal definitions run the...

I think that has more to do with the type of relationship she has with them, as opposed to the type of relationship she has with you. It doesn't really matter what is the activity when we go out with...

Jessica, when hanging out I do the same things with my female friends as I do with my SO. Going out for dinner and/or a movie, or having coffee in a bookstore/cafe, or going out for a drink. If there...

Blonde617, if I had first seen my SO through an online dating profile and if he had publicly disclosed the CDing, I likely would not have dated him. I am not biased against alternative expression,...

Sorry if this was mentioned above, but one thing that some CDers get consistently wrong is when they believe that wives are jealous of their dressed husbands.

I agree with your basic idea that wearing women's clothing does not change someone's sex. A CDing male is still a man with male anatomy.

But does it matter what label we put on it, like "gay sex"?...

Not at all. I see the CDing as just one facet of my SO. It doesn't take away from everything else he is.

If you want to reduce it to concrete fundamentals, my SO has the anatomy of a man, he has a...

Sorry but you've got it wrong. This is just taking pride in one's person, which is more about not wanting to look poor or shabby, in the sense that wearing the same outfit to several events is an...

It's interesting how your post is about whether wives know about the fantasies of being with men, yet many thread responses skirted around that beautifully - while not denying it either. :) I've also...