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What? And give up male privilege? I may be delusional but I'm not crazy.

Not entirely about CD but The Beatles "Get Back" has these lines: Sweet Loretta Martin thought she was a woman
But she was another man

It took many years and many well-meaning but uninformed therapists for me to realize that this is just a part of who I am. Like most of us, I tried "quitting" but nothing really worked. My last and...

Several years ago the remodelers had left for the day. I went outside in a skirt, t-shirt, and sandals to water the flowers, forgetting that the workers had locked the doors from the inside AND...

I haven't dressed in over a year but I still miss the people here. About a year ago when I was pretty open, I went to the dentist wearing a skirt, blouse sandals, earrings, light make-up. I had...

I dressed as a pirate, which morphed into Keith Richards before the evening was over. We went to a night club and danced and women kept hitting on me both as a pirate and as Keith. Strange, but I...

Satchel Paige once said "How old would you be if you didn't know how old you are?" Once you grasp that concept then the question of "age appropriate" becomes irrelevant.

I wish more people would use their cameras. I very seldom get asked to pose for a photo and I would love it if some of my casual acquaintances would take a picture and send it to me. I am not in the...

I am out to my wife, my neighbors, my doctors, my dentist, several friends, several boutique owners, makeup artists, and who knows who else. I do not go out en femme very much, but when I do I make...

In order to lose one pound per week you need to burn 3500 calories per week over and above your normal weight. That means burning 500 calories per day, and you can do that by a combination of diet...

I don't do the total body shaving thing because my wife likes my body hair. And yes she knows about my CDing. She is not thrilled with it but she accepts that it is part of who I am. However, we are...

Yes, I told my doctor a few years ago that I had thought about having a sex change. She was very supportive and told me that I really needed to get counseling with a specialist. Which I did. Three...

Sometimes the best marriages are between people who are really good friends. I think I would take this development as a very positive step in healing at least one of the problems in your marriage....

Yep. I've been caught. Went outside to water the flowers wearing a simple t-shirt, skirt, and sandals. Nothing outrageously girly but still, a skirt. I didn't realize that when the contractors left...

I have to agree with a lot of the opinions here. This is about your daughter-in-law. Go as Matt, sing karaoke, have a great time with the new DIL, show your wife and cousin that you can have a good...

I have tried on heels in the regular Nordstom shoe department many times. Sometimes I shop en femme and a lot of time in drab. I ask for my size (11 or 12), sit down and try them on, walk around to...

Thanks Danielle. We certainly won the trifecta - CD, bisexual, and swingers. Talk about being in a minority. But life is good once you accept who you are, and this forum, plus a lot of counseling,...

When the contractors who were working on our deck left today, they locked the front door using the thumb lock, which we never use. I didn't know that, and I had changed from drab to a short gray...

My wife and I have been to a lot of counseling, both together and separately, and as much as I wanted to stop CDing in order to meet my wife's expectations I could never entirely give it up. I went...

Start with baby steps. Each new outing will bring more courage and confidence. Simple things like underdressing with socks, panties, etc. Then try a pair of women's jeans. Then try a simple T-shirt....

If you want to avoid any possible security hassles at the gate you could just be a passenger in your friend's car. When my wife and I go to Travis AFB they only check the driver's ID.

Yes, several times in the last month I have gone out in public wearing a femme top, necklace, earrings, skirt, and sandals. No make-up, no wig. My natural hair almost covers my ears now. I started...

People often do not expect, nor do they believe the truth when it sounds entirely out of character. So tell them you look better with shaved legs when you wear a skirt. This has the benefit of being...

The first time I wore a skirt in daytime in public was...yesterday! I wore a short-sleeve gray shirt, tan skirt, black sandals, small earrings, necklace, and sunglasses. No make-up, no wig. I did...

Two years US Army. Served as an infantryman with the 1st Cavalry Division in Vietnam 1966-1967. Medical retirement after being hit by "friendly" fire-our own artillery landed short on my unit. The...