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This is a spinny from the dating men thread. I wrote a response in there, thinking it should be a thread on its own and then figured I would just start it on my own.

There were a number of CDers...

to be honest, I hope that my SO never does. It's a part of who she is and I love that about her. I fully support Melissa and everything about her and she's a part of my relationship with my SO. If...

Yay!!! I am so excited for both of you. It really could not have gone any better than that. You guys remind me of how it went down with Melissa and myself. I'm the only one in her life (beyond the...

Very wise words indeed! Melissa and I were talking about this last night. Her femme side in combination with her male side is what makes her such an incredible person. It's why she understands me so...

I'm supportive of Melissa. She comes out when she chooses to and also when I ask if she'll come out and play :battingeyelashes: It's something we sort of figure out as we go. Lately we've been...

But you do understand the value of a really good (expensive) chocolate cupcake so in the end that's all that matters. :D

Oh! I forgot to put in my tea order. Chai please. :battingeyelashes:

Every time I see NiCo's avatar, I instantly think "OMG! What? What have I done?" and then I feel guilty. lol

Sweet. I am so there. I'll play DJ.

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Maybe my tunes will bring out the boys? Not sure if Ze's naked dancing will do the trick to solve that little problem though. :laugh:

Is this where all the cool kids hang out? I've haven't lurked yet but I can start if you want me to. :D

All is not lost. You just need her permission first before you put her in. In the meantime, throw a blanket over it. That's where the big pink elephant in the room can sleep.

I'm proud of you. Properly medicated vs self medicating can make a world of a difference. :hugs:

Little moments like that rock. It's what keeps two people together when the big stuff stresses you out. Thanks for starting my day off with a smile.

I still say stick with the "weird vibe" line and let him know he can come to you when he's ready. i was talking to Melissa (my SO) about this the other night (she's on here too and saw your thread)...

bwahaha...that made me bust out laughing.

Yeah, Stargirl. Get on that will ya? We'd like pics and a full progress report too. :laugh:

GG weighing in here!

Step 1 is counselling. Don't come busting out of your panty drawer until you're stable. Right now doesn't sound like the best time for you to be making such huge decisions...

I would say partner dependent. Melissa and I talk about everything. No topic is taboo. Good, bag, ugly, we've aired it all and it hasn't been easy. But, I'm fully aware that we're not the norm. I...

I think some CDers need to weigh in on what it's like to balance the two sides and what may be going on in his brainbox.

I know a lot of them would love to be in our guys heels and have GG's who...

Ahh...now we're getting somewhere and the plot thickens. ;)

Maybe it would help for him to realize that you're attracted to her because it it's still his personality. Putting his CDing aside, you...

This part made me laugh because I think my partner was a bit gobsmacked at how enthusiastic I was about Melissa.

But for us, I ended up being sexually attracted to her and it caught us both off...

I don't think that's really fair to say though. There's nothing abnormal about my relationship with my CD partner?

It's awful that your wife left you, no doubt about it. But there are GG's out...

Stargirl ~ the reason you're feeling confused is that the answers are coming from us, and not your SO. Truth is, we don't know his history or why he does what he does. All we can offer you is...

One thing I've made my partner promise is no more purging. Melissa's things need a special place and she has a right to them.

The emotions and guilt and regret are such huge emotions that they're...

Sorry to hijack - Can someone post links to CD cruise info?