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I see it as prejudice against all of humanity. If a pair of sandals is acceptable attire for a female, then it ought to be the same for a trans person or a male.
The owner seems to be a misogynist,...

18 Days and no, I still haven't made a new years resolution.
I'm pleased with my will power!

New Year's Resolution - NOT to make New Years' Resolution.
Day 1 - check
Day 2 - check

1. CarlaWestin and Karren Hutton rejoined our community.
2. Retired and returned to Covid 19 free Aotearoa/NZ.
3. Found a lovely, clean, dry and comfortable place to live.
4. Spent quality time...

I would have expected management to be a lot more concerned about a break-in. Lay a charge against them. Negilgence.
The police ought to be able to subpeona the camera footage - I don't buy the...

Maria, each one of us is different, so as far as I am concerned, none of us can put ourselves in your heels. You and your wife will have to explore the issues together, in complete honesty. And...

Compliments of the season to everyone!

It has been a frustrating year! So many plans put on hold. I had planned to visit the UK in October, but had to defer this to late January/early February....

The safe and sensible thing to do would be postpone the wedding.
Then everyone will be able to celebrate it at a later stage.
We don't need 4 funerals and a wedding!

The matter really has been taken out of your hands, Teresa. All of you should stay home on Christmas Day and beyond, stay safe, and dress however you please.
That bottle of wine will have to wait!...

Teresa, can you not dress androgynistically?
Underdress, jeans, t-shirt, Christmas jumper, trainers ... skip the wig and the make-up.
I think it is important to join the family at your ex-wife's...

When I was in a position similar to yours, Rachel, some 12 years ago now, I listened to "Waiting in the Weeds" by the Eagles.
It helped a lot!
"It's alright now!!!"

Liz, the gent was in drab.
BTW - he did not visit again last Saturday, so I am guessing he is not on this site.
Another fellow came in this week and grabbed a dress off a mannekin in the window....

First off, Rachel, please don't do anything that will be a permanent solution to something that is really a temporary problem.

May I suggest you go on Youtube and listen to "Everybody Hurts" by...

Accept her forgiveness - it will set her free.
Forgive yourslef - it will set you free.

You are not in a good space right now and it is important that you do nothing rash for at least a couple of...

I regard Aotearoa as a Covid-free country KP. The only cases are imported, and are in managed isolation. We are fortunate.
I am a little north of the harbour bridge.

Your post confirms that crossdressers are deeply misunderstood, and not accepted by too many who are somewhere else on the spectrum.

I live in a covid-free country. No issues with people trying on clothing. Life is almost normal, apart from the lack of overseas travel.
What would I have chatted about? I don't know, probably about...

Since retiring, I have been volunteering to work once a week in our church's charity store (relax mods!).
On Saturday this bloke walked in and spent about 20 minutes browsing the racks of womens'...

I think H should replace all the other letters. That would really simplify things!
Unfortunately, there are too many bigotted people out there.
Go, you LGBTQ+ activists!
I'm in my small corner,...

The whole 'labelling' thing has alwaysleft me cold. So what should we do? Add a C into the mix?
LGBTQAI+C?
I don't know whether to laugh or cry.

Additionally ... if this website is for...

Yes. I live alone. No issues.

I Me Mine is what I am reading.

I know I resented it when my (now ex) wife stopped me from sailing every Sunday, Michael. It was a huge stress-breaker for me.
Perhaps you have a point.

The issues for me are these:
Is your marriage going to survive? Do you want it to survive? Why is your wife not also involved in the counselling? Does she want your marriage to survive?
Like the...

I personally know a husband/wife team whose business is professional house cleaning.