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Hi Ellen,

AFL or aussie rules is so not soccer, lots of flying through the air involved, so if you are wearing a skirt, be sure to wear your best panties!

Tan

This week end of Australian Football (AFL) is the latest instalment from the league to include all aspects of society.

This round of football is dedicated too and celebrates gender/sexual...

I tis worth making contact or at least reading advice from The Royal Children's Hospital, Melbourne, they are all over this stuff.

http://www.rch.org.au/adolescent-medicine/gender-service/
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I think beginning the conversation with the reasons you didn't tell earlier is always a good idea. For me the confusion, shame self hatred, and not knowing how persistent it can be, expecting that...

If two people want to be in a relationship, then the quality of their relationship simply depends on how deeply and honestly they relate to each other. The will to understand the other and...

Anonimity. It's a partial anagram of my name. I have no attachment or identification with it.

Great conversation!

My only contributions:

1) Share deeply on the experience, the uncertainty, the 'feeling' of your journey. Make sure she knows that these will not displace her needs, and...

I think working to understand the source of the revulsion and self-disgust/hatred (my experience of it) is the most potent thing to could possibly do. Because it is pretty natural to be so excited,...

I'd start by questioning your motives and what is most important. Do you love her, do her fears and anxieties matter? Her fear for her reputation, your relationship, the future, your kids and their...

It sounds like the kind of predicament that would make my life simpler. I'm sorry you lost your wife. I'm wondering if you are finding other areas to invest your energy and joy at the moment, or...

I think there are 2 things going on for the XDresser in relationship. 1) to be known and loved for who we are, 2) to express it freely and indulge ourselves. I'm guessing a lot of us get into...

She so knows, and she accepts and loves you; that doesn't mean it has to go any further. Just love her back. Coming out to people can be tempting for selfish reasons "oh goodie someone to dress...

Take up video gaming?

mmmm, nice question. It's the right kind of 'why'.

I love the process, the fantasy, the yumminess of dressing my dream girl just they way i want her, knowing she is feeling hot and wanted, and...

happy in my skin

Its worth a chat. I lie mainly by minimising my femme side, so i don't freak her out, because deep down i am still ashamed about my needs and the compulsive nature of it. I think she accepts it...

Step 1:self acceptance came after lots of meditation, self reflection. Eventually decided i was ok, i was loveable.

Step 2: being honest with my wife when i met her, early early on, because i...

Scenario #1, but the twist is: the body part morphs in response to internal drives. Scenario #2 would result in not getting much else done.. ever.

Cross gives the feeling of a temporary 'freaky friday' kinda swap. Trans, gives that fluid, spectral slide-into-girlness vibe. Dress is the outer shell, the girl part that rubs on the boy. Gender...

CD here, driving force for me was having enough kids and not prepared to let my wife have a more invasive tubal ligation. I wasn't actively cross dressing then, the nurse praised my hair removal,...

Well I was a bit too "cocky" when i replied, then yesterday i had a rare chance to dress and had just squeezed into my new faux leather pants over pantyhose (with bra and lace top.. i was feeling a...

Arousal can so mess with the fit of a girl's panties and skirts. I use tape and plenty of it, partly to conceal and partly to bind/deter. Something tucked between the cheeks also helps with a nice...

I would go looking for problems that aren't there.

She may have been the tiniest tad insensitive.. maybe, but to take offence would be hypersensitive.

Reine (as always) has shared good insights.

This week I'm going with 'female role-player'.

The nub of the kink for me is the 'wrongness' of dressing, even though i have a high degree of acceptance for other people; for me i like it to be taboo, illicit and a guilty pleasure on the rare...