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Hi everyone
Been awhile since I have posted on the forum.
Life has been so busy.
I have been experiencing wonderful things lately.
I have a wonderful therapist I see once a week.
Group...

Awesome! Happy Valentine Day!

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I just want to say thank you to all here.
Seems like just when "WE" are getting our lives together, others decide they can't handle our true selves and walk out.
It's nice to know there is family...

Hi Maria
I didn't get there early. I guess nerves were getting the best of me.
I wasn't sure how the meetings worked and introducing myself with my femme name was nice.
Once we all got into...

Started counseling this week with therapist.
She invited me to attend a group meeting this morning.
All went well.
I was very nervous and partially dressed.
I didn't wear my wig or forms. ...

Reine
Thank you! Finally someone understands me.
Yes, I want full transition. And my wife is worried about me deciding to move off and live fully as a woman.
I guess my original post was to...

im sorry. I didn't mean to post everything wrong.

Julogden
I have done that. Literally asked her if she needed to move on, that I'm not what she wants is ok.
She still here. I'm not making her stay.
Not holding her here. After much talking ...

Reine
Yes I'm going for HRT. I have therapist set up next week. My wife has said that I won't know if it's right until I try.
Will SRS be in the future. I'm not sure.
My job and age might be the...

Hi Jenn
Totally new for her. She was very vanilla when we married. We dated for a year and then got married. We have been married for 1 1/2 yrs. She found out about me 3 months into the marriage.

Wanted to give everyone an update on my question I posted.
My wife and I have been talking more.
My transition is continuing. I finally understood where she is coming from.
She didn't marry her...

I have seen it.
Feels like my marriage exactly right now.
My wife has not seen it yet.
So far, we have bee thru the shock of me coming out to her.
I have counseling set up,with HRT as a...

If you you have never kept anything or made a mistake or never lied to your wife/SO, then you may cast the first stone. And I am willing to die by your stone.

Sounds like somebody might have an exciting evening!
Jealous!

Oh my,
I've been there. You don't know wether to
Crawl under the couch or talk it out some more.
No definite answer that's for sure. All the information must be processed and sink in. I am still...

It's easier to push someone away or divorce than disclose what might haunt you socially the rest of your life.
I was threatened with that after my divorce before I remarried. Yes, she had pictures...

Tracii
Yes that's all I mean it to be.
But in the past relationship.......
I know I know got to let all that go.
If only I can only get the tears to stop flowing.

I must enlighten a little more.
I have always crossdressed.
I had just started to want transition when the last relationship blew up. Which was totally fine with her.
Because of her drug...

She was dating a married man before I met her. Guess that's why I asked the question.
But no I don't need a cook. I would rather do that than anything.
I lived alone before I met her.
She had...

Whoa whoa whoa.
I was asking for opinions and I got them.
That was expected. Please loosen up the noose around my neck.
Because of your feedback and helpful advice. I contacted my wife at...

Wow.
The divorce rate would sky rocket.
Many many closeted CD out there.
And DADT relationships. They can only sneak around. Unless maybe they don't like to see thier kids due to a divorce.

I see.
Sounds like I made a major mistake in getting married again at least in my disclosure.
I though I was grasping onto the TG side of me. Wow! I'm in left field.
I want to be female but...

Dinky
She chose the ring. I let her do it.
I guess my male side thought it was an up grade. And thoughtful. I see I have a lot more to learn.
So, we never discussed what was ok or safe in the...

Lauranna
Your not harsh.
It is the truth
But then again, who really introduces thier future spouse to all the skeletons in the closet and tells ALL of thier secrets.
She had had sexual abuse ...