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Once somehow high heels became a topic after watching a woman walk by in a really nice pair. My wife made a comment to the effect of ‘I bet you can wear heels really well.’ But it was with an...

Interesting comments...all. The one thing that is a bummer about having to move out of the closet in the spare bedroom is how nice and accessible everything is. Plus I can use the whole spare...

Over the years I have accumulated enough of a femme wardrobe that it fills up a small closet in our guest bedroom. I love having everything all organized and easily accessible for those times that I...

I was hoping to see if anyone on this sight had any suggestions for therapists in the Atlanta area that deal with cross dressing. Hopefully someone who can work with couples.

Thanks,
Cindy

Thanks for all the advice/input. When we finally get to a point where we try and talk about it, it is usually at a time of emotional anxiety for both of us.

I usually find myself at a loss of...

For several years now I have been in a DADT relationship with my wife about my cross dressing. It has not been the ideal situation. But since our work schedules allow me much free time to 'dress'...

I have to dress for myself...wife wants none of it.

I have very mixed emotions about this. On one hand, it would be nice to have someone to 'share' this with. On the other hand I am free to...

I have strong fantasies of being with a man while dressed en femme. Nothing romantic or anything of the sort. Would love to be just be 'taken.'

Have been with a couple of men (before my...

This is a great conversation and some very intriguing thoughts. I too struggle with the aging thing even as a guy. Just see things changing that disturb me.

When en femme, those pervasive...

As someone else responded in this thread, my changes would allow me to switch between my male and female sides…

1) Less body hair
2) Full head of hair
3) Better nails

No battles here…just silent resignation…

Oh NO….! My wife can hardly tolerate seeing me in panties, she will never see this dress! Sadly, this is for me only...:sigh:

Not sure what size is portrayed on their website. I bought it in a 2x. Would have bought the 1x, but in talking with the consultant online, she urged the 2x because it runs small.

I can get it...

No diets here. I love to cook and can easily eat very well. Exercise is the key for me. I find that when I workout like an animal I can eat pretty much whatever I want.

The problem…beer and...

To say the least, I have not been pleased with myself when I look in the mirror. Especially when dressed en femme! I have got to lose weight!

When I finally got the nerve to casually wear a...

While I understand why my wife wants no part of my crossdressing, I still yearn to be able to share that side of me. Even though I find women's clothing more comfortable and flattering i think it...

I love that feeling! Enjoy your time!

Cindy

I too debate whether its all that lonely in the closet. My wife knows but wants no part of it…doesn't even like to talk about it.

I am fortunate that both work and family commitments often...

You are correct Ophelia. I will search for bargains and take sales where I can find them. But I do not compromise for quality.

My wife would have a fit if she knew how much I had invested in...

Thank you all! Great words of advice and support…

Cindy

Thanks for the advice everyone. It was a first attempt, and I know nothing about makeup, lighting or photography…so, guess I should not have been expecting too much.

Candice, if you could only...

Candice,

Not so much as cheap makeup…but lack of experience using it.

Had intentions of posting a pic or two…but now, not so much!!!

Cindy

I definitely view the image in the mirror as much more appealing!

Plus, being an amateur at makeup doesn't help…

Cindy

Kind of new here so I am sure there has been a thread on this before. But I just have to ask…

Is what you see in the mirror the same as you see yourself in a photo?

Spending my last morning...