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    I was a little bit surprised by your major break...

    I was a little bit surprised by your major break from what you had recently said about not dressing for awhile. But what you did is perfectly fine. You felt the need and you fulfilled it in a...
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    Ah, that is wonderful. She is a gem. Treat her...

    Ah, that is wonderful. She is a gem. Treat her well and listen to her.
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    Well, Kimberly, I think you are going about it...

    Well, Kimberly, I think you are going about it the right way. You are not making a big deal of the interlude and you are just taking a break for practical reasons. I am sure you realize by now that...
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    When I was a teenager and I went skiing almost...

    When I was a teenager and I went skiing almost every weekend, on cold days I would wear them. I found it was a great excuse - not only exciting but kept me warm. Some other skiers wore them as well,...
  5. Thread: I Am

    by GretchenM
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    A beautiful, insightful statement of one of the...

    A beautiful, insightful statement of one of the aspects of being different. Not only for people like us but anyone who has a different view of life and sees things in a way that does not always fit...
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    Mine varies quite a lot. In general both men and...

    Mine varies quite a lot. In general both men and women tend to converge with age when it comes to gender sense and expression. It is thought this results from the decline in the hormones that fuel...
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    Susan, I think you have done a really good job in...

    Susan, I think you have done a really good job in analyzing and describing the differences not only in the clothes but also how they feel when worn. From what I see after reading thousands of posts...
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    As I dress in private I would go to the same...

    As I dress in private I would go to the same extent. But with me the desire is triggered by a shift in my gender sense and not a "conscious choice" to dress. The feeling must precede the act of...
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    In many areas cremation has to be done with only...

    In many areas cremation has to be done with only a birthday suit as incinerating the clothes produced toxic pollutants that the crematorium's pollution filters can't handle. Not sure on that, but in...
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    Cool technique of introducing Ericka. You just...

    Cool technique of introducing Ericka. You just drop hints here and there with nothing definite and let them draw their own conclusions that you can either affirm or deny. I like it. Has worked well...
  11. Danielle - I think you are just fine. This is...

    Danielle - I think you are just fine. This is not a one size fits all type of thing. You are what used to be called bigender - two distinct behavior patterns. It is the more common form. Cogender is...
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    Helen has a good point. Others can often sense...

    Helen has a good point. Others can often sense traits in us that we don't recognize. An aunt of mine who passed away recently and was one of my childhood caregivers (nearly all women and only one...
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    I think Di has the correct answer. You need to...

    I think Di has the correct answer. You need to work with your wife to widen the scope of the definition of DADT in your relationship. Do not go behind her back. It will work for awhile, but...
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    Hi Susan, I pretty much agree with the others...

    Hi Susan, I pretty much agree with the others in that a traumatic experience can trigger a whole array of reactions. But that happens in an environment of previous experiences and some basic...
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    I agree that if the child is forced into it that...

    I agree that if the child is forced into it that is probably as devastating as having their sense of self denied. In fact it is a kind of denial of the child's sense of self. But it all revolves...
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    Elaina, your second post is most significant in...

    Elaina, your second post is most significant in my mind. You say, "However, they tell me that they can relate to me better than any men that they have known, and that I am able to "hang with the...
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    I am not on Facebook, but psychologically this is...

    I am not on Facebook, but psychologically this is a very healthy practice and is a fairly new technique in dealing with children who desire to be a member of the other gender or at least express that...
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    I see that you are new here. So WELCOME to the...

    I see that you are new here. So WELCOME to the forum.

    You have asked a really good question. I don't go out in public, but many of the members here do or have. I think as you dig deeper into past...
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    In terms of personality it sounds like you and I...

    In terms of personality it sounds like you and I are a lot alike. In reading your post there were many passages that sounded spookily familiar. My wife and your wife are similar in many ways with...
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    Good questions Jenny. I will respond with a...

    Good questions Jenny. I will respond with a single answer that covers all 3 questions.

    I did not reveal this aspect before marriage because I thought it was gone and I hadn't seen hide nor hair...
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    Yes, Lara, I can relate very well. Last year I...

    Yes, Lara, I can relate very well. Last year I battled prostate cancer and diabetes at the same time. I know those are not as bad as liver cancer, but as many of us cancer victims say, "Cancer is...
  22. Thread: Scribbles

    by GretchenM
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    Helen, I think journaling is a great exercise. It...

    Helen, I think journaling is a great exercise. It gives the opportunity to organize your thoughts and your emotions. And it is wonderful record you can turn to in the future to remind you of "back...
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    I don't view gender as a linear spectrum anymore....

    I don't view gender as a linear spectrum anymore. That got me in way too much trouble because I could never stay in one place. I wandered all over the place in the full range of the "spectrum" as I...
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    I think Tiffany might have defined it pretty...

    I think Tiffany might have defined it pretty completely. It is an obsessive behavior that, sometimes seems to be triggered by a dysphoria episode. Dysphoria technically is a strong discomfort with a...
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    The science on the matter of your case is pretty...

    The science on the matter of your case is pretty clear now. It is not an either/or matter with nature and nurture. It is both. You may have been born with a predisposition, but that would not have...
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