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Better idea. Go to HR, off the record, tell them you appreciate the understanding and support that they have given you but word has gotten back to you of the above situation. You understand that...

I work for a software company we all work miles apart remotely so gossip travels at the speed of instant messaging, which is to say instantly.

Taking CDing out of it, you still can't say all withhodling of information is deceit and therefore bad. I worked with a special needs little girl (kindergarden) with a genetic disease that she would...

I couldn't agree more that young people today have less to fear and more to expect from their SOs. My SO and I had a discussion along these lines, that we are a younger generation, inherently more...

That makes sense if you correlate CDing with cheating, which doesn't make any sense to me. And yet adultery is far more likely to get a pass from society than CDing, go figure.

I hear your points...

Since I did not crossdress before we were married, and was fully honest and upfront with my SO as much as she would let me during these initial stages of this process, I can say I have been totally...

My hobbies are "guy" hobbies, but I think that has more to do with my engineering personality. I have a muscle car that I'm constantly taking apart and putting back together, with better parts of...

My SO was sick yesterday morning, so I got up with both kids (3 and 1), cleaned the house, did the dishes, the laundry, fed and entertained the kids and made her soup for lunch. She was finally able...

I just bought my first body shaper for hips and butt and I'm sitting her tucked on my stupid project plan conf. call getting about to go to my therapist appt. I've been standing here admiring my new...

Coincidentally my therapists and I recently discussed this topic and this was the exact list that came up. My peer group has always been girls, and yes I was always the "guy" in the group but I was...

Ditto here. My resolution every year is to take better care of myself since that seems to be my worst personal failing. Every year it manifest differently and sometimes I'll start with something...

Whoo hoo!!! Girl fight!!! No wait.. Gurl fight!!! No wait... ah forget it... carry on...

I am a bi-gender guy. When it comes to work and most play I am stereotypically male. Authoritave, competitive, argumentative, decisive., ect. I moved up the career ladder and into a leadership...

You Are 46% Feminine, 54% Masculine

You are in touch with both your feminine and masculine sides.
You're sensitive at the right times, but you don't let your emotions overwhelm you.
You're not...

I'm actually in the midst of figuring this out, and the gist of this post is I don't really have an answer at this point.

I haven't posted here in a while, at least since September, although I...

Software Architect. Basically I was a Software Engineer then one day you walk into the room on a new project and you end up being the most senior/experienced person on the team so it's up to you to...

I whole heartedly agree. My SO has brought up the subject that she's worried I might want her to have sex with me as a woman. While I do like a little "for him" play in our fore play and for her to...

Thanks for all the wonderful advice! I've certainlly got enough to get started and I do have all weekend (forget the wallpaper honey, ain't happening!) to indulge. I'm reconsidering the shoes but...

I've always had a little bit of "girl envy" when I was young, but thought I grew out of it. Especially when my career finally got going and I noticed there was a lot of truth to "same work, more...

New to all this, I too noticed the seemingly dual identities that seem to go hand in hand on the surface and I wondered if we were not all supposed to be the same person, but thinking about it I do...

You have all the credit cards already! Let's quit cheating on our diets and then we can go on a shopping trip together! I do miss our shopping trips we use to go on when we were dating.

Whoa! Don't know if I'm ready for that list, and I've already promised my SO to hold of on any extra shaving! But I'll keep the list handy for some other time.

I don't know if I could walk in...

My SO is going out-of-town for the weekend on a pre-scheduled trip. We are using this opportunity for me to try on the en femme persona while she is away. I've never done this before, but I have...

My SO used to wear dresses and skirts, mostly for work, and when she got home she was quickly out of that outfit and into the comfy clothes, almost always sweat pants and a comfortable top. Not that...

So far she's doing ok with it I guess, and she is being supportive. I gave her the opportunity to call it off when we first started talking about it but she wouldn't do it, she isn't that kind of...