Beverley, have you ever tried wearing a cute, feminine head covering?
Try going to Google Images and looking for "hats for women with cancer"
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Beverley, have you ever tried wearing a cute, feminine head covering?
Try going to Google Images and looking for "hats for women with cancer"
As a GG, I don't understand why the conversation here so often centers around "keeping this lifelong secret" or "revealing it."
To me, it makes sense to think of it more as a minor interest which...
Edited to account for Shelby's Door #4 (which I think is a good idea):
I don't understand why there isn't a Door (Number 5?), called "Figure out a reasonable amount of cross-dressing to keep me...
It's your house, and your clothes, and you get to do what you like. You just don't get to do what you like without facing the consequences of your choices.
The consequences in your case are that...
Does your wife enjoy spending time with you? Do you enjoy spending time with her? If you're a huge disappointment to her, it's hard to understand why it's also so important for her to get every...
Just another voice for giving each other time. You're stressed by her reaction; she's stressed by this new information about you. Just try to get back to living together with your normal patterns for...
Not all CDers end up with non-accepting women. There are also many women like me who don't love the CDing and wouldn't look for it in a mate, but who can accept it as part of a whole package that is...
Is it possible to plan a somewhat inappropriate outfit (short skirt), and then wear a respectable coat over it, and head out to a safe space: a CD-friendly club, or a private party with friends? You...
Nice graph. I wonder if you could put in more before the breaking point? From reading people's stories, it sounds like there's a burst of CD activity during adolescence and then the CDer's interest...
Right. Women worked together to change social expectations. It was hard on the first women, and people (both men and women) made their lives hell. But they persevered and persuaded other women to...
I used to feel that way. I learned otherwise. I don't think it's reasonable to think we can see through the lies.
I don't know what the results would be like, but I bet they would be improved if you rephrased the question as follows:
If you bring up underwear or panties in your question, people may assume...
@sfwarbonnet, I find your reasoning a little weird. You want to wear a bra & slip because you want to wear women's clothes, not because they solve practical problems in your life.
To me, slips &...
Yes, as a middle-aged woman, pretty much my options are dress to be weird or dress to be invisible.
Personally, I don't feel there's much point to telling someone else to look on the bright side. There's just no way to understand the burden other people carry in life and if a particular person...
But after the reveal, the wife now feels totally alone with something she doesn't fully understand, nor can she choose whom to unburden herself to, as it's not her secret to tell. Yes, it's true that...
@Cheryl, glad that works for you; our marriage is different and I don't want responsibility for deciding when he dresses.
As a wife of a CDer, I think setting up a schedule would help me deal with him spending more of his time dressed. If he wanted to shift to dressing two evenings a week, it would help me to know which...
But the thread was about how many wives are enthusiastic or find it intriguing. Many of us posted to say that we accept it, just as our husbands accept us hanging around the house in sweatpants. The...
@JudySinNY, I'm the opposite. I don't mind my husband wearing whatever clothes he wants -- sweats, bathrobe, negligee, kilt, maxi-dress, whatever. But I get emotional some times when he puts on the...
@Gillian, I'll go out with my husband dressed, but I've learned to avoid alcohol on those dates because otherwise I'm in tears by the end of the evening.
Most wives who are okay with crossdressing are still not enthusiastic about it.
Some find that their husbands are happier, and so they like that.
My feeling is that it's not my place to judge...
But other people will see CDers, even if they're not looking for them. Do you disagree with that point?
Whatever the percent of CDers is, the rest of society has certainly heard of the concept.
Nobody goes about their day looking to "bust" a CDer, but if they see one, they're likely to notice and...
If the OP's "needing more than they have" refers to equipment, I can address that. My husband confided in me a while ago about his attraction to the male equipment. I didn't freak out about that, and...