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Though it may not always be I think that much of it is. In my case after I found out my own gender issues in my late 30's early 40's I came out to my dad and only then did he tell me that he is a...

Actually I have to say I don't like the terms used and how they are stereotyped. "Gay Rights" have become a catch all for promoting an agenda and once the media has beaten that to death I imagine...

Though I never dressed .. or perhaps better put I did dress occasionally but wasn't a CD when younger (I never even really came out to myself / realized my true gender until the late 30's) I can see...

So which came first the Chicken or the Egg? Or did both arrive at the same time? The point is as many have said is that we are Sexual creatures (Thank God!)... From Birth, though it's expression is a...

I used to underdress a lot esp. in the winter, although here in lower NC even in the winter it's sometimes hard. Panties Always! Tights under my pants in the cold and sports bra's when I think I can...

LOL I'm not! I am a Freak! I have to say that after a lot of thought I would have to say that I am a Straight Guy and a BiSexual Woman, depending on which role I am in, though sexually I prefer to...

I was made to feel guilty by my last X wife, but then I found out later that she had been cheating from day one and was bipolar, so my being bi-gendered was just another tool to use to manipulate. ...

I am with RenneB on the Work thing.. Living in the Bible belt even though I work for a company with "Diversity" policies I think that if I came out at work I would be an outcast and in my line of...

All the warm fuzzies aside you know where you work and if you have been a CD etc. for any length of time you should have developed some pretty sensitive antenna's... Use them. If you feel the general...

Though I don't think I would ever transition as I am happy being in the middle I have been taking a low dose of hormones most of the time for the last five or six years, and have very slight breast...

I don't worry that it is or at least can be genetic, because it is. I'm technically a "Late Bloomer" as I although all the indicators were there from about kindergarten it actually wasn't until I...

Very true.. I've noticed the need is much less extreme now than in the past, but then my Wife knows and supports, and my kids though not out of the house now know who I am (I don't flaunt around...

I work in a very small male organization in the Bible belt where if I were to be "Outed" so to speak it would be devastating to my career, regardless of the company's diversity / inclusion policies....

Hi Doc, You don't know me directly but I remember you from the forums on dateacrossdresser, I used to spend a good bit of time there myself under femguyinnc, Good to see you here!

You're very...

I feel your discomfort.
I too feel that more often than not I am between the genders and to make matters even more difficult how I feel about it and to which side of the fence I lean changes. I've...

Like many I think that issues of gender will become less and less of an issue and it will be more commonplace to see people of all gender combinations out in the open. Prejudice is Prejudice, and in...

Not at all!
A purge is a moment of temporary insanity that most of us have or will go through, sometimes even multiple times when we get fed up with the way Society, family, friends or Lovers treats...

You are indeed very Lucky!
I am blessed in that way too in that my wife embraces my female side, we go shopping together and even do each others nails~ In some ways it's funny as although we would...

I think like so many other things that have been socially "Taboo" the acceptance but NIMBY attitude is slowly becoming the norm.. at this stage of the game there are many who are "Ok" with it on an...

I have to say it's always going to be hard as a CD or Bi-Gendered person in a relationship with a biological woman. After the end of my 2nd marriage (CD was a part of that, but only a minor part) I...

Devita is quite right!
Really there should not be any biological reason for fear or hatred for any male that is Transgendered or Genderqueer as for the most part they are not competition for...

Best rule is if you want to take pictures, get a camera! ... Smartphones are very very invasive devices from logging your position to all the evils already mentioned. I Love photography, and at times...

The reality check for me is that I live in a rural bible belt area (and I'm not saying that is bad), I would never come close to passing and I would never go out in public because that may well be...

I believe the term Narcissism applies here... No Shortage of people of this type anywhere ~ Both Men and Women included, though they generally express it differently.
There are a lot of insecure...

That's not surprising, as everyone has their limits. My wife accepts me as someone who is bi-gendered but even then there are limits. If I were to cross into the transsexual zone, she would be done....