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I gave up using a camera long ago. My iPad is my friend now - it enables me to take as much video as I like that I can then edit and take stills from the frames where I look good. I think video has...

I've had may a fun time painting my nails while watching my beloved Liverpool on a Saturday morning (I'm originally from Chester). My 2 favourite pastimes!!

Ellisia

PS, Katrina - How many Man...

I have never really had a problem with tucking & hiding everything away.

I have tried every method imaginable & they all work, but some are really not that comfortable or practical.

However...

Be careful wearing a corset.

I find if I tighten it at the top too much it has the effect of pushing everything upwards, making my chest, shoulders & arms look huge.

My wife likes it, but it...

Absolutely!!

My wife has come to be very accepting recently, but it still fills me with fear to even tell her when I want to dress.

I think it's the most vulnerable thing you can do. I'm so...

God no!!

Doing that opens a whole can of worms I don't want to even think about.

Ellisia

You beat me to it Penny!!

Glamour Boutique stock these for around $15 I think. I removed the silicone pads from the underwear and use the same glue I use for my breastforms to stick the pads to my...

I was just reading through Emily's thread about her divorce, and it occured to me that those of us with unaccepting spouses really do have to put up with an awful lot of flak from our partners over...

Helen,

I lived the first 25 years or so of my life in the UK, and have since lived in Australia and Canada, and I think all it is is a cultural difference.

When I first moved to Sydney it took...

My wife is warming up to my dressing too, and I don't know if all women feel the same but she insists I don't get dressed and just appear or that she comes home to me dressed up. She wants me to get...

I'm pretty much the exact same as you when it comes to the phases thing. Even down to the fact that I got blamed for stealing my sister's nail polish when I was about 12 (I didn't have another sister...

I thought about doing the same thing. Never had the guts though. Depending on where you are in Canada, maybe we could go together?

After reading this post, I tried the stuff technique today and I have to say I'm impressed, especially if you don't want to go to the bathroom for a few hours.

It's actually much more comfortable...

There is also an alternative - ordinary earrings with the post snapped off can be attached to your lobe using fake nail glue or superglue.

I have also had success with hoop earrings (see my...

I had something similar happen - at the age of 16 I received a notice from my doctor requesting I go for my first Pap smear. I nearly went just to see if they could figure out exactly how they were...

Thank you Julie, I may mention that to her. The cheque's in the post!!

Thank you Sarah. It's nice to feel like I am actually getting somewhere with her on this subject after 7 years of feeling frustrated.

Good point. I reminded her that it was exactly these traits that she fell for - I think she got it but I did get the impression that maybe she was concerned about falling for feminine traits!!
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Nice one Katrina!

The bangs look great - they really give it a natural look.

It actually looks very similar to mine.

Ellisia xx

Ah, there you are Kathy!! Sorry to 'call you out'!! I just remember from some of you other posts that you talked quite in depth about the process.

From what you're saying, I guess there is very...

Sophia, thank you, you're right on the money....

However, your last sentence and the post above by MsJanessa are key - my wife is a compulsive worrier and is prone to overanalysis. She really...

I do think she kind of gets the role-playing idea, but she still doubts herself. Do you think that she will ultimately dismiss her fears and enjoy the role play side of it, is that how it works?
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It has to be my corset!

Ellisia

My wife has come a long way in accepting my dressing recently, and is starting to encourage me to do it in front of her.

She seems to have got over the fear of me being gay / transsexual etc and...

I think if everyone who had a poor relationship withtheir father was a crossdresser, there would be a lot more of us out there.

That said, I too had a very absent father growing up.

Ellisia