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I have traveled by car from Texas, through OK, KS, MO, IA and MN, stopped in small towns and big cities along the way. In all the trips I made, I never had an episode where I felt threatened or...

Personal best? That would be 13 days.

Love it! Especially the moment when you say to yourself, I can do this. I have said that to myself so many times.

I would probably turn this around and say that despite being whatever else I am, I can be deceptively masculine, given my physical stature.

Oh, I suppose my favorite places are trans-friendly bars/night clubs, but not much of that in these parts. Nice little cafes and wine bars, any live entertainment venue, historic sites,...

Yeah, I came out to a co-worker by accident a few years ago. She texted me on a Friday evening just to chat and asked what I was busy with. I mentioned I was doing laundry?you know the usual...

Seems like a fair deal

Obviously, this is up to you, but your wife is encouraging the two of you to be in the parade, so my goodness, why not come out of the cave indeed!

You may want to clarify how she imagines you...

Sounds like a good excuse to do some shopping.

Its impossible see someone else's imaginary walls, but so easy to stumble into them.

Yeah, there’s an element of apprehension when one leaves the male entirely behind, but as you know the worries subside and are quickly replaced by the feeling of freedom and joy. Returning to the...

Late in our 16 year marriage, I recall my ex insisting that she diminished the femininity of her own dressing in direct response to the more feminine I dressed. Frankly, for most of our marriage and...

My thoughts/opinions would be entirely irrelevant. If you are curious, get the blood work done. Anything else is pointless speculation.

Good for you!

I would have wanted all of those items listed, Paula. As a human, I hoped to be accepted, participating, as well as supporting I understood that for many women, accepting a female or transgender...

My guess is that if she saw something she would have reacted at least with surprise, and most likely a question.

I know GGs who look rather masculine and of course a lot of biological males who can be mistaken for women (without really trying). I also recall thinking that a friend might be pregnant, but being...

I will defer to others to discuss pathological narcissism as a diagnosis. As a behavior, I would say it is something manifest by almost all humans to lessor greater degrees. Even in small...

I can understand becoming anxious to dress fully, particularly the challenge of finding times when you can do so without being interrupted or surprised. There is no solution to having a busy life.

The best part is that the dress and makeup were wife-approved!

I am sometimes pleasantly surprised at what I find when I change wardrobes between seasons.

Have a great time!

I agree that crowds are our friends. I think something clicks once we realized that we stand out more when we stand alone.

Good luck with your knee! I winced a bit thinking about it.

Its a blessing to be unaware at that moment?you came out w/o realizing it. So much easier than worrying about it before hand.