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Whether you go out en femme or en drab, most daily chores of life are boring. I think the key for any quality of life is to find an active social group of like minded people.

Being a child/youth of the 1960's my answer would be predicated on the era. Back in the 1960's you'd be lucky if you did not get a beat down; the ordinary guy on the street to the police. I live in...

There was a period of time in my early retirement days when my wife visited our daughter in Chicago for seven to ten days each fall. We have lived in our home for over forty years. At that time our...

I have made some CD nightmares where I am trapped at some distance outside my home and obviously don't pass. It's akin to mobs chasing me with pitchforks. I have not psychoanalyzed those dreams. ...

Hey, if my wife accepted me wearing a pink nightie around the house, I'd be jumping for joy. Sounds like she does not want you to mix the clothing; it's either male or female. The temperatures are...

I do concur with others that testing is the way to go. Other factors other than hormones can come into play. There's the dna angle to consider. When I was a teenager I was a light weight. I grew...

I am betting I am going to read some stereotypical replies and have already. I like to bake and cook. Of course, those activities seem to be identified as "women's work" by many. How about...

I'm right there with Char. Marching in the parade is nothing more than making a statement that you're in support of the LGBT community. Nor does watching the parade confer any more than support. ...

Acceptance would be great. Acceptance to the extent I would be able to be fully en femme; makeup is not a necessity. Preparing dinner en femme with a pat on the butt would be reassuring. I would...

Before my wife retired I had ample opportunity to sit outside in our backyard from spring to late fall. Our weather does not get too many days of extreme heat or cold. Recently out neighbor to the...

Take a trip to New York City, you'll probably get your heel stuck in the subway crates for air ventilation on the sidewalks.

I still cannot figure out where a guy would put his male equipment. Not at all enticing. I'm addicted to nylon and love the feel of a full coverage nylon panty on my butt.

Outward appearance count? Six foot/200 pounds, male pattern baldness. Former United States Army infantryman (Vietnam) with battle scars. Can look rather scruffy most of the time.

To some extent I have to agree with sometimes_miss. My wife still says she told other women around her that she was going to marry me and to stay away from me, although we had no yet met. She was...

Maybe it is time for all to get a body camera of the type many police officers must wear. Just glam it up a little so it looks like jewelry.

Just be observant for non-verbal communication. Is there going to be a little smile and twinkling of the eye or scowl and frown. This is one of the perils of dressing or under dressing at work. I...

I think it is not directly related to the numerical number of age, but, whether there is a loss of body fat in the feet. The bone structure does not change. My width has changed, not my length.

It use to be an element in my planning time, and it was not exclusive to cross dressing time availability. As relates to cross dressing there was a time when I was grabbing at "crumbs of time." I...

What Maria is stating is her wife made a judgement the person at the door appeared to her to be a transgender woman based on her appearance. It sounds like Maria's wife is caught up in trying to...

As others have stated, counseling should be helpful in sorting out issues of self expression. When I was young I hated myself for wearing my mother's attire. Back in the 1960's to wear women's...

I am strictly a dress wearer; no pants or jeans at all. I've accumulated 162 dresses. How do I know it's 162? I maintain a word document listing maker/label, size, style, color. It's annotated...

I think anyone should answer respectful inquires in a truthful manner, as best that can be explained in a brief encounter. I would not be rude or flippant. For that brief encounter you are a...

That would never ever work in my home. MY wife finds bra shopping to be a major effort for comfort and fit. I suspect your choices and her wearing them once are akin to playing with your mind;...

I've said somewhat the same thing in many posts. Of course, in this example it is obviously couple's therapy. A guy wearing women's clothing in itself is only a statement of fact. Maybe, the guy...

There's a big difference between purging and preening down a wardrobe. Purging seems to be a reaction to some sort of angst over being a wearer of women's clothing; usually self reflection or some...