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I don't feel the need to go out en femme. But I do like feeling somewhat girly. I feel I'm "somewhere inbetween" so I'm content to go out with femme jeans, a flat bra, small earrings, maybe very...

I have a beard. My wife loves it and it's a concession I'm willing to make for her. She is very supportive of my dressing.

I would like to see what I look like without it and dressed. Maybe...

I think DD has stirred up a hornet's nest and enjoys being disruptive. She started one thread that had me ready to entirely unsub from the board (which I've found very valuable) and now she's...

I have slight boobs, possibly from taking Androgel. My wife loves them, says she wishes hers were my size :( Unfortunately, the Androgel also caused swelling in my ankles so I pretty much stay off...

You bring up a good point, what do we mean by "girly". Yes, many of us dress up to a more feminine extreme than do many gg's. Does that make us more "girly"? Well it depends on the definition one...

Oh Mydia, life begins at retirement! :):):)

You get a LOT MORE independence when you can retire!

A person's true beauty is internal. I still have my memories and body functions.

Patti...

I don't think I even knew the terms "sissy" or "effeminate" when I was in school. I went to an "all boys" high school so it was hard to associate with girls although I did participate in a couple of...

At that age I had no idea about size or "adequacy". I will say that at this point in my life, I love it when the tight panties make it very, very small.



I disagree, from my limited...

Interesting and I wish I had your courage. Maybe someday....

I was first going to say that it probably depends on where you live, that you can do it in some areas of the country (SFC, NYC) but...

Perhaps I'm one of the offenders, I think I've noted that women rarely wear skirts or dresses any more. My wife wears a skirt a couple of times a year and I do a double take when she puts on...

Not CD related at all, but it seems that my father has a somewhat different memory of my childhood than I do. I guess what I'm saying is that one probably should expect a match of one's parent's...

I feel that the "real me" is somewhere inbetween. A little femme and a little male.

As I'm sitting here now, I'm certainly not passable but I sure would be noticed as "different", LOL.

Patti

Are you sure that's any different than non gay/lesbian?

Patti

Byllie,

Not hokey at all. It sounds totally reasonable to me. I think many of us are in the smae boat.

Best wishes for your success.

Patti

LOL. I guess that all genetic women are sick and exhibit abnormal behavior? After all virtually all GGs in this country wear men's clothes at least part time. Very few wear skirts and dresses...

I too agree that many of us are "somewhere inbetween". How far varies day to day for me. And I certainly see that each of us here are different from each other in how far along we are and where we...

It's interesting that a few have wives who enjoy the more male activities. I wonder if that helps the acceptance? They are happy to trade roles and let us be the girls in the household?

Patti

Claire,

sounds like wonderful goals! :)

I think it is more the "quality of life" rather than how old you live to. Some here have said they don't want to live to be 80. My dad is 88 and has done very well until the last few months. My...

I'm not passable and only underdress in public. I haven't felt the need to meet other girls face to face. I enjoy the forum here.

Patti

I tried on some of my mom's things when I was a preteen. It was early sexual experimentation. I never did any more or thought about it until probably 35-40 years later when my desire to be feminine...

Each of us is different.

The straight/gay/bi three level scale is poor. According to some studies, most people are somewhere between pure straight and pure gay.

Add to that our individual...

I don't know. I generally identify someone by their avatar rather than screenname. If it changes, I assume it's someone else.



Same issue here except it's a beard my wife likes. Maybe one of...

No goals, just enjoy my femme side as I feel I want to.

Patti

Interesting! I like it! Do you dig the hole with a sloping side to help you, or is it straight up and down? ;-)

Maybe I'd better teach my wife how to use the backhoe.

Patti