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I dated a GG who did not shave her legs and it was definitely an erotic turn-off for me. From that experience I can understand why GG's might feel the same way about their SO's shaving their body...

I'll second this thought. Or maybe a television series on HBO or Showtime chronicling your adventures while trying to balance it all between being a married dad in suburbia between excursions.

Can someone give me an Amen!

Amanda,

You fit in just fine around here. I and others have very similar thoughts, feelings, and fantasies like yours and don't necessarily feel like men trapped in women's bodies. I still...

If the blogger were asking my advice, I would have softened up the headings and symbols used because they are a bit charged and send out a somewhat judgmental tone before one even reads the blog. ...

Lucy,

You are not an outcast and you are not alone. From many posts I have read over time and Reine has also shared about in some of her posts on this thread, there are people on this site who...

If one doesn't like the site, one doesn't have to read it. Seems like it is less about promoting an activity or lack thereof than it is about having a forum for those wanting to stop or even for...

This makes a great deal of sense. I know GG's who admitted to having been absolutely flustered and beside themselves in the presence of gay men who they found attractive. Doesn't matter that they...

I think it is easier for those of us on the forum to believe we recognize CDers in public unless they are fairly obvious. I saw 2 where I work (retail outlet) but it was extremely crowded on that...

I really doubt that the therapist will conclude there is any deep-seated problem in your mind-unless he/she is a reparative therapist, which I'm assuming is not the case.

However, I would...

As you can see from the posts here, people dress for a variety of reasons, with stress relief being one of them. Do you notice any change in your husband's mood when he does or doesn't dress for a...

She may learn a few things from you too if you become friends. Sometimes, apparently "closed minded people" become more open by getting to know others as people and realize that their opinions were...

I don't think I can add anything significant to what has been said here. I'm sorry for what you went through and obviously the trauma was not limited to your feelings about the poor woman you were...

Jen,

I know several men whose wives are not particularly happy about them looking at porn. In some cases, it is the deal breaker in a relationship or marriage. Now in general, and for single...

A couple of decades ago before TG's were more out in the open and discussed in psychological literature, etc., it was my experience that many in the gay community believed that anyone who had a...

I also have to agree with Cordgrass here.

While unlike her, I'm not a GG, I have been around long enough and observed GG's long enough to know that in that situation, a GG just keeps on walking...

This psychologist/gender counselor has some interesting thoughts and opinions about being TG/CD.

http://www.docbushong.com/pubs/what_is_gender.asp

Some names of over 40's not mentioned and worth mentioning: Ann Curry, Meredith Viera, Diane Sawyer, Marcia Cross, Felicity Huffman, Diane Lane-I could go on but you get the idea.

I agree with Donni and to some degree with Danielle. As long as it can be worked out between you and your wife and your marriage can be mutually fulfilling and nurturing, then what does it matter. ...

This will probably be moved to meeting places, where this kind of stuff is usually posted. FYI, it is the Oxwood Inn you are referring to, I believe-not the Oxford. If you search for Oxwood, you...

I doubt your were read as anything but a gg (you certainly pass for a gg) and it would seem to me that there is no perfect response... but most likely moving like you know where your going and not...

ROFL. Made my day. If my face was on the avatar the entire forum would freeze up. LOL.

I'm with several here who say they're more trapped by society than by their bodies. I've always percieved myself to have been a bit more sensitive/emotional than most of the genetic males I've...

MiamiMarie-I agree with you in that I believe most GG's are more fluid with regard to the physical presentation of their love interests than are most genetic males (exceptions exist of course). I...

I don't want to rain on anyone's parade but the article below is a helpful cautionary tale about being aware of how much info. you post on facebook. Just make sure you control what info. you put...