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I’m just not ready yet…

Please, everyone. Take a deep breath, and try to step out of your body. Imagine yourself just as your soul, detached from any physical manifestation. No clothes, no apparel, no accessories, no one...

I know what you mean. I agree. You don’t “move” from being a crossdresser to being trandgendered. If you are TG, CD might be a step on the way of discovery.

As far as “being TS sucks”, that’s...

For me, sexual orientation was first. I finally came to terms a couple of years ago that I’m not sexually attracted to women. Dating (and my marriage) was only an attempt to do what’s normal and...

Hi Becca,

I have never heard about Low T, but I can attest the following:

I had been diagnosed with low testosterone levels years ago, before I was fully aware of my real situation and before I...

I agree with Teri. Give him a call and prepare him somewhat… also, maybe you two could meet first in a restaurant for brunch beforehand, to start off in “neutral” territory… might be easier...

Looking at the severity of the punishment and your account that you find that it is fair, it is obvious that you have agreed to a D/s relationship.

I don’t want to intrude in your private...

This is an essential question that I am trying to answer for myself for a while now. But for me it’s not about “moving” — it is about figuring out if my crossdressing is just the“naughty” thrill of...

There will never be 100%, the journey never ends. But hypothetically…

I would love to do whatever is in my power to help others achieve the same.


olga

Since my divorce three years ago, I have been practically living in the closet, trying to figure it all out. I don’t have any close friends — pretty much all of the mutual friends from my...

What I’m trying to say is that straight women generally accept a man’s smooth, closely shaved face, while straight men won’t accept a stubbly, hairy face of a woman.

olga

Hmmmm… I think the underlying question here is if we are talking crossdressing or transitioning.

I personally would not have a problem whatsoever if my SO (I’m single at the moment) would be...

My cat is cool with me dressing en femme. Only when I suit up in latex she doesn’t want to be around me — which is great, because otherwise I’d have some holes in my rubber garments in no time!...

Absolutely, positively, obsessively, yes!!!!!

And the next second, this nasty voice in my head starts to speak: “What’s wrong with you?”

Obviously, I still have a long way to go.


olga

…loose a couple of pounds off my body and gain a couple of tons on my courage.

How sweet life could be :)


olga

Hi Frederica,

I’m sure there are plenty of possibilities out there… I haven’t tried CD chat yet either, so I’m curious what others have to say.

For starters, has anyone tried the link...

I totally agree with the “unwritten rule” to use the matching bathroom of the gender you represent.

But what if I’m out and just wearing a dress, no wig, no make-up, and obviously not even...

ditto ;)

What’s the title of the book?


olga

I wonder what would be worse:

“He looks like a girl” or “She looks like a man”?


olga

Hi Rian,

Please tell your wife how wonderful she is!

I know this is a long shot and probably crazy idea, but have you ever thought about requesting asylum abroad?

The [California] Ninth...

“I reject your reality and substitute my own” (Adam Savage, Mythbusters)

For me the most difficult part is to figure out how much of my fantasy is actual reality pushed away by guilt and fear....

I always had something for Eastern European girl names ending with an a. Plus, it’s just a couple of letters away from my male name.

Best,
olga