This is really one of the key differences between just crossdressing and being transgender. I'm not happy being a guy at all, I'm not happy with guy dress, expectations, interactions, etc...
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This is really one of the key differences between just crossdressing and being transgender. I'm not happy being a guy at all, I'm not happy with guy dress, expectations, interactions, etc...
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I underdressed at work all the time (I work from home now so I can do as I please). I once wore a full fishnet body stocking under my dress attire and a colleague gave me a friendly shoulder rub. I...
I should add that with my drab male wardrobe is delightfully subdued earth-tones, I have kick-ass socks. My dress socks are typically black, but with coloured heels, toes, soles, etc in super bright...
I would say that typically I have extremely drab and boring male clothing (until very recently). Earth tones, lots of plain white, black, or blue jeans. Any colour is usually darker, such as...
Isha nailed it - at least in my situation. However, as a trans woman, it was even harder on my SO. In fact, she even stated clearly that if I just wanted to dress up from time to time, wear women's...
Women's clothes are definitely more comfortable, and many more options. You can't get more comfortable than a sun dress, etc. Yoga pants are super comfortable. Women's jeans are far more...
The material in women's jeans is not the same as men's. The feel, cut, stretch, etc is entirely different. I hate men's jeans, I feel like a slob if I have to wear them.. but a good fit pair of...
Fitted jeans, yoga pants, skirts and dresses. It's all good :)
Returns are easy - they don't know who it was for and don't care. It's the browsing and trying things on that's hard to get over. I bought all of my own clothes so far, primarily at Walmart,...
I hate guy mode... so I really don't care what I wear. In he summer, some type of cargo shorts and a ratty t-shirt, cheap runners from walmart, etc. Which sucks because I'm guy mode almost all the...
Dee3 :) It wasn't a personal address to you :) I was pointing out for those reading along that genital dysphoria, although common with many trans men and women is not an absolute. OP has many...
Absolutely incorrect. I don't mind my penis. Well, I don't HATE my penis. It can be frustrating, and I wouldn't miss it, but I wouldn't go out of my way to remove it. Yet I am a trans woman....
Paula - you are 100% correct. I'm just too chicken to have that conversation, and actually hope that over time, perhaps the hormones will help me life life as-is. So far, it has. I dress in...
Michelle - The only person that can answer the TS/TG vs CD question is you. The point that I knew for sure after questioning is when I started thinking about ways to kill myself... and for anyone...
I echo Kelly's idea - I wear an anklet where possible. Even a pink/white/blue friendship bracelet to signify who I am. It's never visible anyway, but if it was, it's not a huge deal.
Bras can be a...
I'd be thrilled to know that someone I know understands :) I'd PM them right away, as likely they are in the exact same position -- nobody or very few people around them that know or accept it.
I...
I've never presented feminine in front of my wife (well, once in the bedroom a LONG time ago, but to her that was just play, entirely different.) I came out to her last November as TG. It was a...
I'm an MtF TG, I don't get a thrill out of it at all. I do it for sanity, to feel at peace with myself, to see what I'm supposed to see in the mirror. I'll do it just to lounge around - although I...
I used to travel a lot and have whole nights to myself.... I'd do my nails, dress right up. Now I get about 5 hours, but in the middle of the day, until my wife and kids come home. I dress, but...