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I kept it a secret for 23 years; the "talk" started a year long domestic disaster; crossdressing is still a off limit topic of conversation; dressing has been eradicated;

yet, I recommend to tell...

Me telling my wife turned out in a domestic disaster (a year and half now) but I am an advocate of the trust and share.

My recommendation: do your homework and learn how to do it right, or the...

Sacrifice is a very feminine trait - this is the opportunity to be a women for real!

Or take it like a man! live with the consequences of your decision!

Hawaii is not exactly next door, when...

I posted a couple of pictures once but took them off because I gave the site address to my wife so she could educate herself and did not want take a chance of her seing the said pics.

It took ...

That is my understanding of it:

First, male are a variation of the default state, which is female. why would males have nipples otherwise? nobody is 100% female nor 100% male. even women have a...

What first catches my eye is the general demeanor, confidence, etc. that alone makes a women beautiful to me. Then I check out the outfit head to toes, like this don't like that - often I am envious,...

Agree, keep it simple. labels are confusing, even on soup cans.

I am me, I do what I enjoy, you are you, you do what you enjoy. do I ask you why you do such things?
you are not comfortable...

I agree with Reine, she exposed very well why your girlfriend would think/behave like this.

the whole thing is about your relationship (you both, I mean); what motivated you to get together to...

best advice I ever had!
Did that right after I read your post, what a bum I am not to have come up with anything close to that. She had the eyes of a lost puppy begging for TLC.

Thanks to you, I...

Every little thing counts, everybody helps somebody someway by contributing to the forum, it's karma.



That is how I see it, "listen to the message, not to the bark". Regardless of how it was...

Brief recap for whoever does not know: I came out to my wife (of 23 years) a year ago, she hates it, despises it, does not want to talk about it, pretends it does not exists... All my attempts to at...

sounds like something I could have written a few years ago

Like Gabi said, you are just beginning to see the light.

We (humans, not only CDs) are all part male, part female, your female part...

I am a man, I can't think like a woman, so I don't know what I would do if I were the wife of a CD.

Now I can tell you what I did as the husband of a devastated alcoholic who made a lot of people...

Any group has a normal composition - that means its distribution follow a bell curve with the few nasty on one side, a mass of idiots in the first middle half, a mass of OK people in the second...

I never play a femme character when dressed, I am just myself.

More and more I get comfortable and let it go while in drab, sometimes my wifes picks it up and is annoyed by it (less and less,...

Don't mix family and business, it's bad luck - plus she too closely related to you to rub your body - that is not even a CD issue

I agree,

I shopped around a little and dared to say it was for me (in drab), and because I was confident, joyful, I had great reactions from some ladies SA who saw me as a cool person to be with...

Dianna, it seems you are doing full speed progress. who had believed you would be having such day 3 months ago

inspiring

bravo

You said it

to make an analogy with a personal event, when I met my wife, she already had three teenage kids from a previous marriage (she is a bit older than I am)

although we got along very...

no way I want to be a woman, and I believe there is too much illusion about what surgery can do.

My goal is to become the person I am inside, who is a blend of both gender, but mostly male. If...

My wife hates my crossdressing and is in the "don't wanna know about it, don't wanna see it" mode.

yet, although i am always in male clothes with her, when I relax my mannerism sometime let loose...

Me too, I wish I had the courage to be honest earlier. but for my defense, I have to say that I was quite confused until I reached for this forum.

Have you ever tried foot massage?

I am convinced that CD is not the real issue in couple, however disturbing it might be. and your posts seem to relate more to other issues than crossdressing.
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Gillian - this is serious matter - I did it wrong and we went through months of domestic hell

Do your homework - ask the GGs - they know better
Marla had a thread/article about how to put the...

Seems a very cool project - may you and your wife have a great time. that will make stronger bonds in your couple.