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Have three only thing I would do different is have them more colorful.

Yes there are boundries. Set by her and not agreed to by me. As of right now we live with a don't ask and I won't have to lie type of boundry. Not sure that I would lie, but it might cost me my...

This kind of activity is why we should all keep our hearts in good condition. Don't want to have a heart attack while trying to change in less that 5 seconds

I cry alot watching movies. Other night watched Casablanca. Wife always gives me funny looks so I try and hide it. But wish I could just let it go.

Definitly a girl of any kind.

Thanks for the lift, your story has made my day better.

I would go with Spouse. It is the most discriptive with out gender.

Thanks everyone,

There is a lot to thinks about here.

Mary,

Yes, I do feel like a hypocrite. which makes it even harder to decide how to handle this. I choose to not say any thing to my wife before getting married and then years later when I felt...

So One of my daughters is getting married soon. She is living with the young man at this time and they seem very happy.

The problem is.... she has brought up to my wife that he has dressed up in...

For me it was in my Mom's room while everyone has gone. Then found some storage boxes on the top shelf of my closet. Just added to them.

Middle Boy/Girl, two older and two younger, But there is a possibility that one of the older ones might CD. But have been out of touch with whole family for many years

Sara,

I too have a man that watches over me. I have been out very little and when things get hard or scary then he comes back to protect me. It's not a split personality but a part of me that...

She doesn't know it but when I am Stephenie and not pretending to not be, she likes me more. Most people do.

Well, one of my 7 yr olds likes to wear his mom's shoes. High heals and pumps, and his sister's pink cowboy boots. I don't have any problem but jealesy:daydreaming:,my feet are to big. Last night...

I am going though these questions in my life right now.

How can I be me and still take care of my responsabilities at home. Since my wife will not accept dressing then anything further is also...

In high school I had a girl friend who left me for a girl, I was told later transitioned to male. Would love to get back in touch sometime but have no way to find him now.

Unless some one here...

I choose a name when I started here some years ago. But since then I have felt more and more that Stephenie is the real me and my male name (name is different enough to out me:eek:)is the one I have...

Sorry but I agree with YMS, right now I wish that I had never told my wife and still don't know if our marrage will survive. Best of luck to you, hope thing work out for the best.

Stephenie

Many years ago when I was in the milatary my brother suddenly left town and cut ties with all his friends. No one would tell me why. Though I did have a short conversasion with his ex girl friend. ...

Thank you all for listening to my problems, One of the hardest things is not having some one to talk with. I have alot of thinking to do. I can see that she is thinking to. I think she might be...

Thanks everyone for you kind thoughts.

So here is some of what may not have been said in first post.

We have been married for 26yrs have alot of kids counting the ones she had when we married and the ones we adopted (all special needs)...

Well I didn't get the chance to talk about so kind of compromize. Last night We were claening up the house and doing laundry when she started in about CDing and that she would not live with it. ...

It is the feminazation of my middle name. Which the feminine vioce in my head said was her name.