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sometimes I pass when im not even in girl mode. when im in boy mode, i think a good portion of people actually think im a girl trying to be a guy :heehee:

i've been going out in public for two...

I honestly feel like that my name chose me, not the other way around. I thought about names for years, until one day I considered Vanessa. I didnt even have to think it over, it just felt so...

you've got to be kidding me. the only one here ripping you apart is yourself. we gave you some wonderful advice to improve what you are born into. you can only change what you see in the mirror so...

We wouldn't want you to make a fool of yourself :) honesty is the best policy.

On a serious note, don't go all emo and contradictory on us when we're just trying to help.

arch your eyebrows if you really dont wanna look masculine. i'd suggest some angled eyebrows (like brooke shield's eyebrows) angled eyebrows help soften a square jaw. and pick a wig that has the...

Back in my denial days, I bodybuilded, ate like a bodybuilder, and even played tackle football for years. I thought if I became an example of a man, I would be happy as a man. LMAO! now i'm dieting...

geez, I can't even walk like a man anymore :P let alone act like one.

I can honestly say that I have made great progress in accepting myself :) When im not around any of the friends im in the closet to, I'm already dressing andro and acting how I act, freely. I know...

Law of Averages. Boys have a shorter lifespan though, so there are statistically more women in most of the world.

I was the one who sent you the hip routine a long time ago :P I'm glad to see its done so well for you!

My ability to pass would definitely affect my desire to transition. It would be very hard for me to carry on if I got gawked at just for being myself. Also, my occupation of choice probably isnt...

I want absolute self acceptance over anything else. the rest will fall in line once I am comfortable in my own skin.
other than that, I gotta complete my weight loss transformation once and for all...

I got ma'am'd on the phone for the first time today. That was an interesting experience, wasnt even trying to do that :eek:

I looked up eyelash tinting...so its like mascara that lasts for 3-5 weeks? If I ever go full time I'd definitely get it done! but my eyelashes are already thick enough that if I got something like...

those were all very good tips :)
I need to go get a cuticle trimmer so I can give myself a nice clear polish like I haven't done in a while. I also need some new moisturizer too!

I'm glad you...

I've finally decided that I hate going back to drab so much, that my drab style will now be at the very least, androgynous :)

But I have almost no clue where to get started!

When it comes to...

pshh I wish :P my dad is so hyper masculine that I dont even want to begin to describe his lifestyle.
maybe thats why I feel so at odds with him ;)

geez...I have so many styles :3

I have preppy abercrombie polos...some second hand hipster style clothing...but sometimes I just wanna turn up the heat and rock something a little racy ;) wish I...

first put on mommy's bra when I was 10...im 21 now :)

If only it was this easy :) I purged EVERYTHING 4 months ago, changed my lifestyle completely...yet, here I am once again.

no matter how hard you try, you can't change who you are underneath it...

I barely turned 21 like 3 weeks ago, so naturally I want to go hit up a bar :) So i've found a group in socal that is associated with one of the tg clubs down here...i'll be going out as soon as I...

you know you're passable, when you wear gender neutral clothing (like jeans and a college sweatshirt) and still get gendered female.

I feel feminine without ever having to put on make up or clothing...I feel like the woman comes from the inside out, not a feeling you can just put on and take off.

Yes, my university is actually extremely liberal when it comes to LGBT issues. And I have just started therapy, actually....Im just terrified of losing some very old friends I have. they may be...

Hi, everyone. maybe a few of you might remember me from my active posts in the past. I purged hardcore since October. Threw out over $400 worth of things. Deleted all my online personas. and...