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Who is "we" here? If you're talking society at large, I'm wondering if anyone here gets that this simply isn't going to happen. There are a clear set of social rules in...

I've seen "her" look back before- and I'd see more of her if I lost more weight.

Now what scares me about going out isn't social stigma or other people, its myself really. If "she" is not confined to the home I fear I'd lose the control I have over dressing.

Anyone decide to "take a hiatus" on CDing, by their own accord, to "reel her in" a bit? I'm floating the idea of a pause.

I typically only dress at home and the SO doesn't mind... but lately the...

Tracii, I do the same. Situational awareness, positioning myself to be aware of things. Its not crazy, its common sense.
Anyone have chickens and a rooster? Anyone notice what the rooster does...

Perhaps you could stay at a hotel, get some double-relaxation in.

Every so often I treat myself with some nair. Permanent hair removal while ideal, seems to be too expensive (unless things have changed recently?)

Pink fog- When you feel like you'd rather purge your male wardrobe completely than take off that LBD.
Ugh, so unfair.

Getting dressed, feeling so good doing so, and then... having to undo it all-
1) Running errands.
2) Someone arrives- your friend, the electrician/plumber/cable guy you had an appointment with......

I'm not so certain. I think what happens in "liberal" areas is that the ridicule and shaming switches targets from you to a new local minority- the non-accepting. Like if many of us dress in public...

IIRC, it was a similar experience for me. Suddenly I had more dressing time than I knew what to do with- or cared to use. Nobody to sneak around, no need for caution. I am also able to work from home...

I weighed in my head two approaches:
-Undressing or delaying, he'd start waking up/regaining his faculties getting impatient, maybe him going back for a flashlight or flipping the light on, start...

It was pitch black, he was half asleep. I know- I was counting on it.

Had a close call this last weekend when a friend came over four a couple nights, which we do every few months or so here and there. He doesn't know about my dressing.
I dress daily at home to some...

When you're looking at that perfect dress from the inside, rather than the outside.

Krisi,

None of us should have to walk on eggshells for others... The "fragility" of some people is absurd. Given the escalation of this trend, eventually the only acceptable dialogue will be...

^^^ THIS. Thus the "perfect ones" get worn out and cycled out... even if I find something similar, the differences tend to ruin it.

What's your formula? :D

:) Thanks for the inspiring push of encouragement.

This speaks to my inexperience. I have neither femme shoes nor makeup. Someday, maybe...

How is this different than:


Now I would agree if this was advice:


And as I've said before, I don't buy this notion of "respecting women" by conforming physically. By that standard most of...

Didn't see this until now, I think this is flawed. "The world" (a reference to society) has no power to tell you what lifestyle choices are right or wrong, in fact the only power society has over you...

Parting with feminine attire seems to have two sides.

I just breaks my heart sometimes to throw old, worn favorites out. My favorite bras in particular. And I can never find them, or their...

This is a really interesting comment. I can only wonder what that must be like... any more depth you can add to this would be appreciated.



He certainly seems courteous!

I got an LBD from my SO. She's not one to indulge my feminine side very often but is very accepting.

I take issue with this attitude as it gives license to future cases- suicide is a choice. Do not rob someone the ownership and responsibility of their last acts, it is dehumanizing and cruel. True...

Becky Blue,

I would say that it is imitation with individual flare. It certainly isn't my cup of tea, but I don't buy that it is disrespectful unless the motive was to mock women, which I doubt.