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  1. First of all, are you certain that he is a...

    First of all, are you certain that he is a crossdresser? You've only mentioned makeup, and it may well be that he's just exploring what is becoming a common fashion for young men today.

    Assuming...
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    This ought to be a sticky in this section of the...

    This ought to be a sticky in this section of the forum. Anything, anything that carries significant medical risk should be undertaken only after a thorough course with a qualified counselor/therapist.
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    If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the...

    If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. Props for rocking the Goth look in public, but trying to dodge scrutiny, at place set precisely for scrutinizing passing motorists was the...
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    ...and yet another forum member discovers that...

    ...and yet another forum member discovers that the "angry villagers" are actually as scarce as hens' teeth.

    Happy to hear that you had such a nice time.
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    Welcome, Tokemo. At one point or another,...

    Welcome, Tokemo.

    At one point or another, virtually everyone here has felt that way. Some still do, but you will find that the support here can go a long way if you are truly desirous of finding...
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    I am on Facebook. If you're worried about...

    I am on Facebook.

    If you're worried about being outed, you have good reason. Facebook et al make their money by finding out everything they can about you, and they are very good at it. Still, it...
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    How many "look at this crossdresser" posts have...

    How many "look at this crossdresser" posts have you seen on social media?
    I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, but I've never seen it. If you dress to call attention to yourself, like a hooker or...
  8. Lisa, Online has become the standard delivery...

    Lisa,
    Online has become the standard delivery method for all types of care. As a therapist yourself, I'm certain that you appreciate the limitations of that medium, but it is what we have, for now....
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    That is a valid concern, and one that I try to be...

    That is a valid concern, and one that I try to be sensitive to Still, I'm sure that i forgot to qualify my comments as coming from TS POV.
    BTW, my profile spells it out. That's something that each...
  10. That's how I (finally) came to understand my TG...

    That's how I (finally) came to understand my TG nature. Well into therapy, after I had been recounting many similar examples, and wondered aloud why I was so affected by some, she said something...
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    Yes, it is time for "the talk". Don't "ease into...

    Yes, it is time for "the talk". Don't "ease into it" or try to determine if it's "safe" to come out to her. Pick a time and place that is private and free from interruptions. Let her know your...
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    Yoga had not yet been invented in my "youth",...

    Yoga had not yet been invented in my "youth", much less "yoga pants". :heehee: Nevertheless, I wear leggings and casual tops almost as my uniform. I dress as would most women my age, and as...
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    You might get consensus, more or less, by asking...

    You might get consensus, more or less, by asking here, but that will likely be meaningless to your wife, Michael. An "acceptable" frequency is something that you will have to work out between the two...
  14. Why would you call that "unconscious". Surely,...

    Why would you call that "unconscious". Surely, you didn't just come to at some point and find yourself in that new role. Gradually, I can understand, but unconsciously?
  15. You are, in a nutshell, asking why CD'ers CD. The...

    You are, in a nutshell, asking why CD'ers CD. The plain fact is that this is not well understood. Clearly, there are a number of reasons (many given in this thread), but there has been virtually no...
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    As Micki says, it's not "first date" material....

    As Micki says, it's not "first date" material. There's no rush, but if the relationship progresses to the point where there is any significant emotional investment, it's time to share.
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    First of all, the glaring and gaping are not that...

    First of all, the glaring and gaping are not that frequent. OK, those parts of Las Vegas where the tourist traffic is heavy may be an exception, but most people, by far, will treat you as your...
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    This "test" has far more efficacy as the...

    This "test" has far more efficacy as the marketing tool that it is than it does as a diagnostic tool. With that in mind, it's harmless fun.
    61, by the way.
  19. "...something going on with the adrenaline...

    "...something going on with the adrenaline rush..."

    Absolutely, but that rush, and the need to pursue it, is something quite apart from what drives the gender non-conforming behavior. I believe...
  20. Thread: So confused

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    If you want help in sorting this out, engage a...

    If you want help in sorting this out, engage a qualified therapist. Period.
    Don't get me wrong. You've received lots of helpful advice here already, but us telling you about our experiences is not...
  21. Never. I figured out early on that I was LESS...

    Never. I figured out early on that I was LESS happy when I denied myself, and unlike drugs and alcohol, i was happier, no matter how much i "indulged".
    The comparison remains as specious as ever.
  22. Meaning he has expressed ignorant and hateful...

    Meaning he has expressed ignorant and hateful views of things he does not understand.

    Assuming he is not yet an adult...
    I'd start there. Leave yourself out of it for now. You are his father....
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    Amen! Why do some people continue to equate TG...

    Amen!

    Why do some people continue to equate TG tendencies to things like drugs, alcohol and porn? I can, almost, understand it from the masses, but people here are supposed to be a bit more...
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    A better example of the whole "love is love"...

    A better example of the whole "love is love" concept, I have never seen. Very happy for you, Bobbi.
  25. I agree with GretchenM. Look......

    I agree with GretchenM.

    Look... "Understanding" is a two way street. You have every right to ask for your spouse's understanding, but you should be clear on what you're asking her to understand....
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