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Maria, I think that it happens with age. I started to see a shift in my late 50's, I could enjoy dressing in a sexual way for three and four days before losing the interest after the 'deed'. Into my...

That brought back a memory of my first time wearing hosiery after shaving my legs. There was fireworks, yes, I totally lost it.:battingeyelashes::heehee::battingeyelashes:

Being hyper-sensitive to touch myself, I relate with the picture you are revealing to us.

The sway as you walk wearing lingerie against your skin. The warm feel from a bra snuggling your breasts....

Marie Claire, these questions have been asked before and things are changing, but a a glacial pace.
Depending on where you live, depends on how easy it can, or can't be for a dresser. How much you...

There have been many times I have gone shopping with the wife. Then once she is finished, I make a request to pick up something also. I then get her best help possible. Why, maybe because I made sure...

Sorry for your loss. If dressing up helps you through this difficult time of grieving, then go for it. Dressing does many things for me. One thing it does ,it helps me to relieve stress by stepping...

I am in a big closet called my home. My wife knows and accepts, but requests that I don't go out dressed in a fashion that anyone else in the world would know about my CD'ing. I understand her...

I agree with you, it was my scariest moment also. I was betting the farm on being accepted, and not losing it all, as I was then into a 20+ year investment of marriage with someone I love very much....

All people have their quirks, foibles, and oddities that we all have to ignore, or live with. My wife has no qualms with me going 50/50 around the house, top guy, bottom gal. She helps me with...

I wouldn't use the word watching, but she is often in the bedroom while I'm dressing. I dress at home as I please without any qualms, and always underdress. It is typical for us to get comfortable in...

In another post, the question was raised, what was the way that got you started. There are so many different ways to starts, but I have seen so many commonality's about after our starting.

So,...

There are 365 days in a year, with 24 hours in each day. So, I would say that there are at least 8760 different reasons how someone got started.

The reason we stayed with CD'ing probably has more...

We all have a reality that we have to face, can we pass, or do we look like a guy. I now don't attempt to do anything other than to wear, and enjoy the particular items of women's clothes I have come...

12 most common questions:

1. What is frequency of dressing? Underdress all the time.
2. SO: What is current attitude towards: 0 to 10 with 10 being best. Nine.
3. who else knows? Wife and...

Relationships have to be built on their own form of uniqueness to the traits and character of that said couple. Like Gretchen and spouse, my wife and I have lived our lives on a 50-50 format. This is...

What I have read over the years here is this. It is only a matter of time before you will be dressing again! My experience of purging and then starting again showed me that I was not alone.

Try...

A definite yes to this question. After coming to my wife, my on occasional routine increased with my new found freedom. This led to going full time underdressing about 25 years ago. As my libido...

I don't believe that any human is 100% masculine, or feminine. With our different hormones flowing through our bodies, we have times where different urges can drive us. What we all need is to have...

A very good move, it shows your love towards her, as well as it keeps the CD door wide open for you. I call that a win-win situation!

Some people have this driving force within them to want to know 'why' things are the way they are. I am one of them, I want to know all the "why's" in life. Looking at the personal CD'ing why's has...

The key to many relationships has much to do with compromise. Often people think about the possibility of a win-win situation. Even in the court room there is something called "Quid pro quo", as in...

This sounds to me like you were hoping to keep yourself in the closet. Well the bad news is the door is not only open, but the walls have been torn down too. The only way to catch up is to get on the...

There is a problem within the American Psychiatric Community that revolves around them getting their name on a sickness, or syndrome. As a result some disorders have become 30 to 40 years behind...

I started seeing a Psychiatrist 3 years ago. It was then that I discovered that I had Asperger's syndrome. Being on the autism spectrum, I quickly found out by reading much material that 'spectrum...

So many good comments. In my case, I have met others in drab in the past, and we talked about the typical CD'er problems we have in life. Meetings open up different dimensions of communication....