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It did take a lot of courage. The event was mentioned on this forum, so I knew it was a safe place where nobody would ridicule me, or at least any problems would not be likely to happen. Still it was...

Thanks, yes, that was me. I hope to go there again soon, probably in May.

Thank you all for your kind words. Can't wait for the next time...

I went out to "The Bouncing Bomb" pub in Oakville for the first time ever in my life (!) for their last event on march 22nd. I'm not counting one previous outing to Rocky Horror Picture Show with my...

I went to a first ever outing in my life to a CD event in a local pub last week, and I just had to pick something :-) I picked a first name that I liked that none of our friends and family had. So...

Thank you. Yes, I don't have inner conflicts about my gender, we need relationship advise, so you might be right about that. I don't know much about psychologists, so thank you for the links, I will...

I think it's time to try and see if something can be improved about my wife's difficult relationship with my CD desires... For her sake as well as mine. Not very likely but it's worth a try. It's a...

Well, that's pretty much dead on :-) It took a visit to a psychologist to convince her that letting me spend couple of hundred dollars a year on some new or old hobby is OK and harmless. Not that...

Wow. Such a sad and moving story... I hope he comes around some day...

Oh, she has drive :-) I meant she doesn't want anything unusual, not "nothing sexually". She's not shy to tell me what she wants but it never hurts to ask again and again and try to improve so that's...

To be fair, she's not exactly saying that I can't do it with her. But because it's emotionally difficult for her and often makes her feel unhappy, it's getting excruciatingly difficult to even...

Yes, we talked about it many times. Without venturing into details, she's not interested in anything unusual, more than trying once out of curiosity. I try to be as good and attentive as possible in...

I know exactly how you feel...


For me it is definitely not. I'm prepared to make sacrifices and I did, not engaging in CD as much as I could and not bringing it up for as long as I could. If it...

Thank you for all the replies. Food for thought. Just to clarify: she more or less understands what this is about and what it means. In some respect she figured it out from my desires and fantasies...

Hi all, it's my first post here. Sorry if I'm too verbose, but it's difficult to express. As a matter of fact I've never told anyone about my issues but my first girlfriend and then my wife. Feel...