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Yeap, girl all the way.

Hi Lorileah,

Sarah is "annoyed", "insulting", "sarcastic", "projecting", "doing therapy..." etc. Strangely, nobody said Sarah is curious.

There are only so much of these I want to read before I...

Hmm... although these are very good discussion material, they are deviating towards the intellectual rather than the emotional.

Most people recognize the practicalities of labeling and I am not...

Thank you for the link, DeeAnn! I've been relying predominantly on wikipedia to explain these terms (I know... oops) but now I've got a reliable source to refer to.

You've brought another great...

Hi Becky,

Okay, at the rate we're going, we have about 12.7 posts before the moderator shuts down the thread. Lol. Lets see if we could work together by back tracking a little:

1. I started a...

Hi Becky, thank you for your comment. There are lots that you mentioned in your post, most of which I deemed intellectual and hence will not respond to it.

In fact, what I'm about to say is also...

Sorry about the many warnings, Katey. In essence, I'm trying to moderate the thread right from the beginning by making the thread as focussed as possible. It doesn't always work but one can try.
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There has been countless threads debating the meaning/definition of terms including "crossdresser", "transgender", "transsexual", "woman", "man", etc.

After awhile, the debates become somewhat...

Maybe you can't concentrate because you were distracted by the thought of putting on a pair of silky pantyhose, bra, heels and satin robe.

The reason to come out is highly personal and variable and people come out not just for the sake of their marriage, but also for the sake of their own mental well-being. We can all agree that having...

Thank you for the informative link, Jen. I really enjoyed it.

My parents were good friends with the 4 horsemen and they invited them in for dinner every night at the dinner table. I'm not...

Nadine,

My family was very dysfunctional too and communication broke down before everybody resented each other.

Looking back in hindsight, I realized the need for better communication but at...

Jess,

Your question demands attention. :)

Rather than exploring just your wanting to talk about your "tg-ness", why do people want to talk at all? It has to do with us being social creatures...

This reminds me of the plight of the muslims, who are being misrepresented by ISIS and radicalized islamists. The muslims would argue that these fundamentalists do not represent them, but it does...

Hm... Perhaps.

I think there must be some degree of it on a subconscious or unconscious level.

I have to admit that I have rarely seen criticisms by other members on pictures, even those...

Bruce,

It is as true as you want it to be.

You decide if its going to be 40 years, or 40 seconds.

Don't let anybody set a goal for you. Its your life, your responsibility.

Love,
S

I'm also growing out my hair but I really need a haircut. My last haircut was 7 months ago. I'll probably go for a hair cut in a month or two. :)

My avatar is wearing a wig, my profile picture is...

Something happened...

My mother dressed me up as a girl when I was 5 years old or so because she thought I looked like a girl. For some reason, I found that very comfortable and that was when...

Hi Rockhyde,

That's a good question!

I have never been a very confident person in anything I do, and I am most insecure about my appearance (I have my mother to thank for this).

Therefore,...

Chocolate is definitely my go to drug for a hit of serotonin and dopamine.

Although this hasn't always been the case and I'm curious as to why that is now.

Having said that, I don't always go...

Hi ReineD,

When out, I put forth my most feminine feature of myself, and that is my face. I rarely wore makeup but my long hair does most of the convincing. :) I'm blessed that way.

I don't...

I remember the days when I still get very excited and aroused sleeping in lingerie but it is not an issue to me now. :)

It just feels normal to me now.

I am more interested in why people chose to stay. :)

I ask myself that question too. I used to post a lot of pictures of myself but that got old very quickly.

I stay because of my passion in...

You can challenge your thoughts by asking a couple questions.

1. What is the worst thing that could happen if you went out dressed?
2. Are the consequence going to kill you?
3. What would my...

Hey Raeleen,

If you are not looking for advice, then I hope you will find some peace here knowing you are not alone.

There are countless people here with the same...