When a wife finds out that her husband is a crossdresser it's just about always a shock to the system. You feel hurt and betrayed. Maybe you feel anger. Your first thoughts are about you and/or the...
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When a wife finds out that her husband is a crossdresser it's just about always a shock to the system. You feel hurt and betrayed. Maybe you feel anger. Your first thoughts are about you and/or the...
I'm 73 but didn't come out until I was 46. I think that probably the average age is somewhere in the range of middle age 40-55 because most don't come out at an early age.
I worried about the way I looked when I was young. I wanted to be better looking than I perceived myself to be because being a teenager at the time meant being "cool" and attractive to the opposite...
No….because then all the pleasure of wearing women's clothing would be gone.
The only way to conquer the fear factor is to get out there as much as possible and just DO IT. Each time you go out you'll be more confident than the last time. I've taken many walks as a female, at...
I wear a lot of different colors but black is at the top of the list
Some businesses may enforce gender conformity but not all of them. Before I retired I worked for Frito-Lay which is part of the PepsiCo corporation. In my work group we had three GLBT people who were...
The advice the others gave you makes the most sense...but are sure that maybe this idea isn't a somewhat hidden desire to in fact "come out" ?
If I had to choose one era it would probably be the 1920's or 1930's.
As time goes on, you'll come up with many questions on your own. Only you will know what you want to ask. Hopefully, when you do ask, you'll get truthful answers. Good luck to both of you.
Cleaning and doing routine household chores is a part of life whether you're male or female. I'm always dressed when I'm home so I'm always cleaning while dressed. The same goes for yard work.
What did you give your nephew for an answer when he asked about your toes being a little pink? Before I came out to people my daughter noticed one time that my legs were shaved and I told her that...
Lola by the Kinks
Both my ex wife and my current girlfriend have told others. I have no problem with it because the more that know the lesser the burden we carry around with us.
I don't need some "holiday" to give me a reason to dress up.
The feeling will ALWAYS be there so dress whenever you can.
Unfortunately for us, laughter and teasing can be a part of what we have to go through to live and dress as we wish. It can hurt just as much as ridicule but if you don't venture forth and deal with...
I've been out dozens of times alone and it was always a good night out. My few cross dressing friends all lived quite a distance from me so it was only once in a while I would get together with one...
What have you got to lose? It might be fun. Just go to an upscale place and let someone know where you are in case he turns out to be some kind of jerk. There doesn't have to be a second date. I kind...
One time I cut my hand on a piece of broken glass. one look at it and I knew i'd need stitches so I wrapped a T shirt around my injury and off to the hospital emergency room I went. My nails were...
If people don't want to be told truth then maybe they need to take a good long look in the mirror and be honest with themselves instead of asking others for an opinion. Due to body size, shape,...
I'm just me.....no labels please !
I haven't seen that yet but that's because I haven't been to the doctor in nearly 20 years.
I have to disagree with seeing a therapist as a way to "solve" these issues. If a therapist tells you that you need to suppress your feelings and dressing for the sake of the marriage, you will...
Both my parents passed away before I began my coming out process and I never did any dressing of any kind while I lived at home with them so I never had to deal with any potential or real fallout...