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Thanks for your reply Lorileah. It's true, his desire to be desired could be irrespective of the control dynamic (dom/sub dynamic) we have going. If we figure out that he is a switch... then I guess...

Hey everyone,

Thank you so much for your advice, support and kind words on my last post!

I basically know that what I need to do next is have a heart to heart with my BF and say what I've...

Hey Teegs! Thanks for your reply on my post (concerning my compatibility with my bf) yesterday! Your response means a lot.
It's been so great reading your post and all the advice the lovely people...

I would love if this would happen! Thank you for your response :)

Thank you so much for your response Nikkilovesdresses! I think you're totally right.
I tend to be a bit neurotic/anxious in general... and worrying about my relationship is one of the ways this...

That's great advice. Suggesting to explore it platonically is a great way to show him that I embrace this side of him. It will likely open the door for the conversations we need to have.
He has...

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response Katey.
I'm sorry to not be more clear - I meant "collective experience" to mean a multiplicit, varied, and diverse collective of individuals with some...

Hello wonderful world of CDers and friends,

I am a bit anxious about the CDing behaviour of my boyfriend, and need to voice my feelings to someone. I don’t have friends that I can comfortably...