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Yes, I've attended one a few times and will go again (and change there) when I buy an outfit. There's another group that meets in a cafe that I want to try. This well be a litmus test. Thanks x

I'm not keeping score, but I'd call that the majority indicative of TG. But it's the very doubt about "is this enough" and what I have to lose that is holding me back.

Thank you for your reply x

I don't hate being a man or hate my male parts. I don't feel dysphoria. For me it's a positive desire to be a woman. Odd to say the least. It's called gender incongruence for me, not dysphoria. I...

Hi Kim,

You are right that it's a big umbrella. You are also right that depression could cause those feel-good sensations. Or, as you also say, the repression is causing the depression - which is...

I'm feeling a lot of internal pressure right now, she's waiting to come out. The other factor was the famous "red button" test - I would press it and be a woman without much thought. I now feel I...

Thank you for all your comments.

I know that only I can decide and TBH I've nearly exhausted my resistance, hence asking if anyone can manage it. I feel like trialling HRT at the very least, for...

Hi. It's been ages since I've been here as I've been exploring my gender and I'm confident I'm transgender. Being confident doesn't man I'm happy though. I've almost given up fighting it by looking...

This. I'm starting counselling next week (interviewed 4 to find one I like), but then I'm now pretty certain I'm transgender and want to get on exploring and growing into that.

I've not been here for a few weeks but just came back to this. Fascinating 2D:4D though it seems a bit simplistic IMO.

I was on TRT last summer and it was during that period that my interest in CD...

Men's clothes can be interesting. I've recently bought a nice summer jacket which when paired with a colourful cravat and my bronze coloured hat I really look quite dashing. My wife likes it. I feel...

I think it would be wonderfully relieving to drop the pretense, to spend lovely time with the women, as one of them. Is this a case of "the lady doth protest too much"? What is holding you back from...

I went to my first social ever, in London. No drama, welcomed and everything. Two of the attendees were CD (or trans, I don't know).

Good things
1. Somewhere to go weekly amongst LGBT people,...

A more androgynous face.
An accepting and encouraging wife?! 😂

Weight/gut can be worked on with lots of work

Happy New Year everyone!

I only managed clear nail varnish and knickers at a party. I bottled wearing a bra as lots of hugging with people who can only dimly guess this new journey! Here's to...

Bea: an interesting question! I was diagnosed with inattentive ADHD 2 years ago aged 55. I too ruled out autism fairly quickly. The various ADHD meds however haven't made any difference. I tried...

2023 in review? Gone from near zero (occasionally wearing my wife's panties for seconds) to being underdressed whenever I can in knickers, bra and thigh-highs. Very much early days.

2024? I don't...

Undressed is all I can do right now and I'm enjoying that, nothing else in my wardrobe and no money to buy anything. My post wasn't about being underdressed which I can do.

My post was about how I...

I have been enjoying wearing a bra most days recently, including being out with people. I've slept in it for the last two nights to see if the comfort helps me sleep better (not so far). My wife felt...

Counselling can serve to help
* exploration - why do i like women's clothing, going out, etc. Exploring where this goes (simple CD, private or public, gender identity, trans, etc). This is an...

I'm still new to CD and to this site so I haven't seen the photos everyone is talking about and I'm new to the journey and very much groping my way forward in the dark.

I did scan a few of your...

Sorry, I should have been clearer. I'm happy underdressed, it's the notions of being publicly out, of being out and proud androgynous or feminine that went from "this is me" to "don't be daft"! From...

Today I was underdressed and really enjoying myself. All positive for CD. Then I sing at church, still underdressed and it all feels slightly ridiculous. Like "who am I kidding"!

I agree, you're 98% out with them already. Get your wife to all if you're worried, but I think you should own it. The new man needn't be a problem. With just two men, one of whom is CD then he'll...

I'd like to be out. I doubt I'll be able to if my situation stays the same. In this winter weather I'm able to fully underdress and I like it a lot. The hug of the bra is comforting and a real "ahh"...

I also feel your pain. Other CD online resources do hold regular online meetings - could that help?