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I was just asking myself this same question today. I'm not a full-time dresser. In fact, I only ever intend to wear female clothing in the privacy of my own home. So where do I draw the line if...

This is exactly what I did last year. I decided to stop fighting it and just accept that I am a crossdresser. Something happened that I didn't expect and it was exactly what happened to you. Right...

People will respond very positively to confidence. What I do when I shop is I act like I have every right in the world to shop in the women's section, which I actually do. Do people stare at me...

There are definitely no rules for crossdressing, besides the obvious one of not exposing your privates.

I, too, have been told, Lori, that I should dress my age. I just have to ask, why? I'm...

People have every right to dress the way they want to, CDer or not. Nobody is out there representing me except myself. If a CDer is walking through the mall dressed like a hooker they are...

Yeah, I understand what you're saying. Just as long as they are taught to tolerate all lifestyles, even if they're not what would be considered normal. I guess my post is going out to those who...

I'm in complete agreement with Debs and Shelia. We are a part of society so therefore we should be the ones proving that we can wear what we want and act how we want.

I'm doing my part. I'm...

Before I say what I have to say, let me warn people that I'm not a parent and a lot of it is fueled by my emotions regarding my desire to see crossdressing accepted mainstream.

In my opinion if...

Oh, definitely! Especially younger women. I've seen girls/women dressed like punk rockers. Either because they are or they're just fans of punk rock. They look totally different from other women,...

The reason I purged in the past is plain and simple: SHAME. Some days I would think way too much about my crossdressing and I would come to the conclusion that if anybody were to find out I did that...

When I come out, I will be out for good. I'm not going to pick and choose who knows and who doesn't know. Whoever knows me personally and every stranger who sees me out in the world will know. ...

I'm 27, so I'm still kind of young, but I've never been on a date and I'm still a virgin. I have no problems with this. I've just never been interested in having a close companion, or soul mate, if...

Guess I'm in the vast, almost non-existent minority on this. I've never seen the point of pantyhose. Granted I do think dark tights look really good with a skirt during the winter, but that's about...

Oh, I definitely agree. My plan is to come out on my birthday and that's in 7 and a half months. I figure if my feelings haven't changed by that time then it's safe to say the feelings are true.
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Don't get me wrong. I'll be constantly thinking about it up until the point where I plan to come out. But I've been confused my whole life and I have never felt so sure about my place in the gender...

It hit me yesterday like a ton of bricks. Throughout my adult life I've been confused and desperately trying to figure out what my CDing meant. I remember being a young boy at about 4 years old and...

I work in a warehouse, so my work environment doesn't really cater to nice clothing. It's very casual. Most workers just wear jeans and an old shirt. So if I ever chose to dress at work I could...

Since joining this site, the moments of clarity and confidence definitely outweigh the moments of doubt and worry. Every time I read about a member having a positive experience from just being...

I think you're overthinking it.

Just do what I did and stop treating CDing as if you have to fulfill a weekly dressing quota. If you feel like dressing, then dress. If not, don't. Just go with...

I've never seen a reason to give myself a traditionally female name. More and more lately I've been seeing males with female names and vice versa and they're not crossdressers. I see it as one more...

(Sigh) Looks like my brother's Halloween party isn't happening this year. He and his wife just had twins in June so I guess they felt that planning a big bash wasn't going to be in their finances. ...

Why can't it be a learning experience for both you and others. Sometimes I learn things better if I'm learning it with somebody else.



I definitely agree with that. I wasn't friendless, but I...

Sorry, Miranda, but I really don't agree with any of this. I've been a closet crossdresser since I was about 12 or 13 (I'm 27 now) and I've had feelings about crossdressing for as long as I can...

I don't really see it as a "me first!" thing. I look around at people who aren't crossdressers, men and women, and they're wearing what they want to wear and act how they want to act. And I can't...

I never knew shopping was so much fun until the first time I shopped in the women's section. There are so many clothes in the womens/juniors sections that I want to buy that I'd go flat broke buying...