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Mostly I go all the way in order to fully enjoy the look. I think it is always a bit stressful as I am still learning and refining my look. There are times though when I have just put on a skirt...

Many of us have experienced something similar as we started to get "out." I too used to go stand on my porch in the dark or make a brave walk out to the curb at night making sure no one else was...

Thank you Rhonda Jean, well said.

I will add to Ressie's comment that we need get back to good definitions. Phobias as Ressie reminded us are normal. But I think here we are often just talking...

Youbetcha! Being attractive is a joy, tho I also know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It has only takes one. Got whistled at once while out, and must say it both scared and thrilled me.

Good for you Deedee! I had a fantasy Kentucky Derby party a few years ago and dressed in fancy dress, hose and heels. Just didn't have a hat. Looks like you are going all out. Enjoy!

Sometimes it seems we can all over-think things. "No one can know what anyone else is feeling because you are not that person" has little validity in my experience. Recently I lost my mom. We all...

Wow, it has been incredibly interesting reading all the posts. My first knee jerk reaction upon reading the OP was "Of course i would switch, wouldn't we all?!" This was a great exercise in...

Nicely done! Great write up.

Wow! That's impressive. I am blown away by your musical skill and creativity.

Great moment with a great friend!

Luv the mug!

no real injuries though I did have foot surgery about 8 months go. I think part of the issue, as someone reminded me, is that the shoes need to be broken in before they will be truly comfortable. I...

So girls, help me out. My high heel experience is painful. I am talking about heels 3 inches and taller. The latest to cause a problem were almost 4.5 to 5 inches depending on how you measure them....

Great to see another Dallas girl out and about. Thanks for your story, it is fun to share in the experience.

Nikki, Heather most specifically did NOT say you should not attend services dressed. She simply made a reasonable point that you should be respectful of the situation, and that when it comes to...

Powerful positive note about living out your identity and having the courage to do so. Thank you for sharing. I am sure you will continue to do what is right for you. You also gave the class a...

One of the best posts ever Jennifer. Motivational look at what we can become from a practical perspective. We all seem to be seeking, at one level or another, that balanced state of being. Thanks...

Now that is funny!

I am an IS on the DISC scale. So I IS what I IS.

When I first read the OP, I wasn't sure what direction this thread would go. Let me just say you ladies can be very insightful, wise and sensitive. And instructional. I resemble many of your...

Well, thank you Tara, but you are just as good a wing-girl as you are an autobiographer.

There are so many "natural" elements about my personality that come out when I am dressed. Some have been mentioned, smile more, increased engagement with others, fewer defenses, maybe that is more...

Yippee! You can do it. The fun is just beginning. Good for you Jonie!

Happy Valentines to you Tara!

And to all you lovely ladies out there! Have a wonderful day.

No. We struggle too much with the "why" and self acceptance ourselves to presume that women must accept us unconditionally. Agree with the comments about the false assumption that women wearing...

When you go shopping for an hour trying on a bunch of shoes or outfits and then don't buy anything after all, but are smiling as you leave the store.