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Kim and Nikki,

I agree. For that reason I'm still weary about how (if I even should) coming out to my family, particularly my father who's a well-read yet still into machoism.


Thanks for all...

Sarah Silverman.

My family doesn't know yet, but I think a few may suspect.

My closest friends, however, do know and are accepting.

You'd be surprised how many people don't pay attention to that. Not only do I shave my legs, I also remove hair from my hands (not much arm hair), and I've been thinning my eyebrows gradually. No one...

Over the past months I've read several "Coming out"/"Came out" threads and it seemed to me that responses are more positive than negative, so it inspired me to come out to someone for the sake of...

I was thinking about how I gradually care less and less of what people say or think about the way I look. Although I consider myself male, I do wear nail polish and sometimes light makeup (although I...

I made the switch to wearing panties almost daily. Also, about 2/3 of my jeans are women's jeans. I wear them all the time and I don't think anyone has noticed (at least no one has said anything)....

That gives me an idea for when she does ask why I shave them :D


Thanks for all your replies, ladies. I feel much better now realizing it's just a silly sibling thing.

Probably been said already, but:

Because it is assumed gay people are open-minded. However, gender identity and sexual orientation need not be related (almost always isn't). I've personally...

Today I had a surprise visit from my sister this morning. She came to get some old pictures of my grandparents I had scanned for my mother. I hadn't gotten ready for work, so I was still in my pj's...

That reminds me: she actually has seen in as a girl in pictures from two different halloween parties (she found it amusing). But, that was before I was wearing nail polish etc., and the makeup was...

I was having "girly" drinks before I mad CDing an important part of my life. Sure, I was made fun of by my guy friends (and I didn't care), but I wasn't the one asking them to introduce me to girls....

That's very nice to hear! I've been picturing my future daughter and I, teaching her to do her makeup, throwing fashion ideas at each other, and just dressing up for fun in general. All the things...

The first time I went out in public? Or the first time I went out in public and was noticed?

When I was 21, I went with some friends for a weekend getaway to Ensenada, Mexico to celebrate a...

Jorja,

You bring up an interesting point. After reading every response, it seems ReineD's is the average of all the responses.

I will give you ladies an update later :)

Thank you all, for your kind replies.

Just to be clear, I'm not her only son, but I am the oldest son (I have an older sister).

At this point I'm still sure I want to tell her in person, and...

After not having been online much the past month or so, I thought a lot about why I had stopped dressing. I simply had no desire; I stopped manicuring my hands, shaving my face, legs, etc. Why I did...

It actually happens quite often but that's because I have long hair and wear skinny jeans (and half the time women's jeans even in drab) and it happens when I'm turned around.

But yesterday, I...

I'd respond "because I don't always like dressing like a guy." That simple.

Perhaps you unconsciously did it as insurance for her. You won't tell if she won't tell, though there still exists that possibility she says something to someone. Or, maybe you wanted to be on a same...

I've been more and more open (especially to myself) about being a crossdresser, and more generally about doing whatever makes me happy.

I went shopping and bought some cute sexy dresses, skirts,...

Once, while waiting to cross the street at a stop light, some elderly woman told me "You know, earrings are for women! You shouldn't wear any." I had my hoop earrings that I almost always wear in...

From the time I was 16 until I went off to college at 18, when I was home alone I would go into my mother's drawers and take some lingerie, then into my sister's to get a thong. Not only would I wear...

I also don't think more androgynous will end crossdressing. I've come to terms with myself and being open about being an androgynous guy. However, to me there is a clear distinction between being...

I agree with coming out gradually. I had the chance to do so and didn't go for it, and now I regret it. My current roommates aren't the most open people but even then they see me with nail polish and...