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Justine, I think you hit the troll on the head.

Anyway… Badtranny I have the butter.

Here is some of my experience which of course means it might not relate to a single other person who has...

If John and Jane Q. Public wander around the board they are going to find a majority of people who are not gay or bi. So I don't see how you could hypothesize that we are the ones queering societies...

I really am Bi in that I've been with Men and Women while cross dressed and dressed as a guy. But weirdly I find sex with Men much more satisfying if I'm cross dressed and sex with Women utterly...

Bi, Bi baby. When in heels and a tight skirt I don't think of women or for that matter tv's as anything but companions and/or competition. But when dressed as a man its generally the opposite, but it...

I've been thinking about this for a couple of days now and thinking about when the "I'm not" bothers me. There is the very long thread about would you consider dating a guy and I think that is the...

After reading the whole thread, well up until right now. I was surprised how long it took for someone to mention that the OP was talking mostly about what is on this forum. Yes there was an example...

This thread inspired me to re-watch Freebie, its not a great movie by any means. But wow Christopher Morley was sex as hell a boy and as a girl. If you get the chance I suggest giving it a watch.

Debs and Sandcastle,

Thanks for mentioning Christopher Morely. I saw Freebie and the Bean about a year after I first cross dressed and it was a revelation. I think he was in several shows/movies...

Briana,

As to your followup question, I dress about as much as I want to. Its nothing like 24/7 because I don't want to dress that often. Even with that, I am under dressed most of the time. And...

Of course Gay men are just as diverse as the rest of the population in their likes, dislikes but I would still suggest that masculine gay men are the "blue eyed blonds" of the LGBTQ world.

Barbara,

I find your answer surprising because you don't define yourself as transgendered ie: you are a gay male. Its one of those things that make humanity so infinitely fascinating. You emulate...

MJ,

Terrific thread, I'm surprised by how many people see it as an indictment for not being out of the closet. Since I'm basically not out in my daily life I really do see it as a challenge to "be...

Maya,

Fantastic question.

I'm not exactly the audience you are speaking to, but probably close enough. Getting dressed en femme, is a turn on in itself the feeling of satin on my skin is always...

I don't think being part of a minority within a minority is going to make it easier. As others have said its not really about the dressing, its about the fear of being seen as different than the...

Well MJ, I will certainly keep that in mind should I ever have the good fortune of meeting you.:daydreaming:

MJ,

I think your right that the labels get in the way, I try to use them as way to help me categorize what I'm thinking but often they just confuse the issue.

By the way is it true, do blonds...

Pythos,

I think Chrissy has really good advice. I know in my own life that dating is just like sales you've got to open a lot of doors before you find what you are looking for. I'm naturally quite...

Wow, I was surprised at my reaction to reading this thread. Certainly we all have our opinions, but I thought Violet's original point was don't lump groups of people together.

I'll just make a...

I'm single because I've decided to find out how far I want to go. I've been in relationships pretty much since my teens and several have been with GG's that were accepting and wanted to participate...

When dressed I much prefer to take the feminine role. But If not dressed I prefer the masculine role.

I've really enjoyed this thread. The range of feelings is so wide, its actually kind of heartwarming to see how much variety there is in just our little corner of the world.

For instance I totally...

Dressed in heels or brogues, Bettie Drapers new husband on Mad Men is someone I find wickedly attractive. In general when I'm dressed as one of them I find men attractive but not in an erotic way....

I've done a fair amount of online dating, its been a great way to meet people Men and Women. I second or third that you just need to be safe, its actually not much different that regular dating.

I've kept journals for most of my adult life, although it can be spotty I'll go months writing everyday then nothing for a few months. I write about many different things. Sometimes my feelings other...