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Leslie,

Since "Karen" has a negative connotation in parts of modern society, how about you not mentioning it as a joke or otherwise. My sister is named Karen and is a wonderful person. Joke or...

Agreed, tell him your preferred pronouns and tell him that you may be politely reminding him when he slips up. Let the other lady find out as she might. If she wants to talk to you, that is her...

I am with Wren on this one. I saw one professional one at Finochio's in San Francisco. That was great and everyone was spot on. any others that I have seen over the years were all less than worth...

I like labels as they help guide me to better understanding. I believe very few are fixed in concrete because as mentioned above people can get pretty wound up about defending their own definition,...

Jean,

Hooking up with someone from your local bar does not have to be an OTT moment. It was OTT in their minds, but you can think and act for yourself. Now if your language and actions at the...

I can't answer for you, but with this Covid stuff I don't see my children nor grandchildren very often, so FaceTime is wonderful for that. I FaceTime with one sister who loves it to. My other and...

What wonderful news. Glad you could share yourself too. Now, FtM, what pronouns do they prefer. My guess is He/Him or They/Them. Be best if you can do that for them.

I did not have any Mommies. I had people who helped me the first few times to go out. Funny thing, now almost 15 years after first dressing up as a woman, I am a full time trans woman who is...

Rachel,

Do the right next thing! Actually, I think that you are already doing that. I like the "The only recommendation I have is to NOT undertake too many issues at the same time." comment...

January 10th this year had my FFS! That made me really happy, good bye high forehead and receding hairline. I am alive and fairly healthy, all loved ones made it this far alive and well, survived 2...

From 5-6 1/2 to 5-5ish now, 130 pounds and toning up the muscles through daily weight machine workout and hopefully some body fat redistribution from the hormones. One can dream!

If ya got it, flaunt it!! Enjoy life because it is just too damn short. We seem to die when we finally learn how to enjoy it. Start early and enjoy longer!

Our hearts are with both of you.

I had a double hernia repair in 1992ish. I never had any trouble tucking, nor problems with the mesh. I have also had prostrate removal due to cancer, advance male sling surgery to lift the bladder...

I erased the line. With no line to think about I just did what came naturally for me, and here I am today about 13 years after starting to crossdress from zero, a full time trans woman, a woman,...

Roberta,

It is probably a big thing for the ex-wife for her own reasons. As for Teresa, it just sounds like she was getting the lay of the land before venturing over to the house. I see no...

Well said Bea. I like your point of view.

Allie

Angela,

You do you. Many of those real world people need to know that we exist. Not everyone is proud and courageous enough to reveal their gender identity. Each to their own, and I am like you...

I also vote for whatever floats your boat. I also with others in that wearing what you want does not in the grand scheme of life matter one way or another. I don't always like a lot of what some...

So sorry to hear about this. Have you had a second test, since the first test was self administered as I understand? There are a lot of false positives even in the professionally run testing sites....

Try Susan's Place (susans.org). It is a support site very similar to this one with much more information about the different places and experiences one may have wherever they are under the...

Thank you Leslie! someone needed that.

Allie

I am sorry that you have to wear those stupid face masks. I only buy the smart ones and they have kept me safe so far from catching a real bad virus from stupid people who don't wear their masks...

I am full time for the past few years. So, clothes do not count for me. I am always hairless where it counts, wear a simple true gold chain with a simple cubic zirconia stone, and gold earrings...

Have you contacted the therapist to find out if he/she does Facetime sessions. I have done several with different doctors and they have worked out fine. Just pick out a nice spot in your house...